Why does my friend act like this? and what should i tell her?

Question

ok, so i want to get my hair cut and that includes some side bangs (i dont have any bangs right now) but it seems like my friend doesnt want me to get it because she has bangs (and btw my hair style wouldnt look anything like hers). like when i was talking to her about what i wanted she was like "ugh everyone has bangs now" and then she didnt want to talk about it anymore and she was like idk why you want to get your hair cut like that. she didnt say that it would look ugly or anything she was implying that she didnt want me to get it because she has bangs so i was like wtf? what should i do? and why does she act like this? oh yeah and she also complains if someone has the same thing as her like a top or a bag or something.

Answer 1

she probley does that because shes insecure and doesnt want anyone to look like her in the slightest way because they might look better eg.. someone is wearing the same top as her but she wouldnt like it becuse the top may suit them beter or fit them better!!

xoxo

she isnt a real friend so watch out for her but dont make enemys!!

Answer 2

you'll probably look better wit hit anyways...so get it....

Answer 3

How old are you? 13? 14?

Because if you are around that age don't worry, it's a normal stage for some kids. They're trying to find themselves and be "original". It's a way of distinguishing themselves from the pack, some people do it. Adolescence does crazy **** to some people. Story of my life.

I wouldn't take it too personally, and just hang out with nice people you get along with

Answer 4

It seems like she really wants to be unique, and is annoyed that what she likes most people do too, so alot of people would have similar stuff to her. She probably feels threatened that you or anyone else are stealing her style. If I were you I'd just get the bangs, they usually compliment most faces and you can get different versions. She'll get over it!

Answer 5

This is actually (and annoyingly) quite normal in life, specifically against teenage girls.

My advice is this:

It is your hair and you should have it styled how you want it.  Regardless of whether your friend doesn't want you to, it's not her head it is yours!

Explain to your friend that you are not trying to copy her, that you are just ready for a change in hair style and that this is the one that you like best and think will suit you right now.

Don't let anyone put you off what you want to do in life, no matter how small!

Answer 6

You know i hate it how girls are like that sometimes. Just because she has a bangs , doesnt necesarily mean you can't because afterall your hair is going to look completely different right ? But unless she just recently got her bangs and you decide to be bangs after she got her bangs, then that would be very unorginal of you. For example she got her bangs last week so this week you get yours. You get what i mean? But if she had her bangs like 6 months - a year ago , then shes just being immature. Time is a very important factor in this case. I hope you understand what i mean.  

Answer 7

do it with your mind

a chinese friend

Answer 8

Get what you want done. s***w your low self-esteem, self-concious, up-herself friend.

Answer 9

Good grief, it's just hair. It doesn't matter what you do.  Do what you want and stop thinking about what other people say.

Answer 10

wow. okay first, i totallyyyy know what you meann! one of my friends is like that and its soooo annoying!!! one time, my friend got the same gray skinny jeans as her from pacsun, and she like flipped and made this HUGEEE fightt. and now everyone has them.

just because she thought of a style DOESNT mean she can reserve it for herself and ONLY herself.

if you want sidebangs, get sidebangs. she needs to learn how to be not sooo selfish! and like a million ppl in my school have the same haircut(sidebangs).

shes just trying to trick you into thinking its a baddd ideaaa.

Answer 11

Do what YOU want. Your friend will have to get over herself.

Answer 12

she defo a very jelous person! (does bangs mean extensions?) ignore her she so immature! She needs to grow up and maybe you need to find a new friend! Do and wear wot you want she only pissed off coz you'l proberly look better than her! I'd have them done if i was you fu*k her! hope this helps x

Answer 13

Get your haircut the way you want it to get cut. It doesn't matter what styles your friends have. If the way you want your hair just happens to be the same as theirs, then so what, big deal. Tell your friend it's your hair, and you'll style it however you like. End of story.

Answer 14

That's easy. Get your hair cut the way you want. It's normal for your friend to want to be the "first" or "only one". Don't be upset with her for that, she is just wanting to be unique.

What you already know, is that you both will be unique regardless. Bangs are bangs baby, and people have been either cutting them in or growing them out for years. Everybody has done it once, or will do it once.... and if they like it, it sticks.

No big deal. You do what YOU want to do. I hate to be so harsh about your friend, but seriously, she'll get over it. Unless you show up in her same shirt or skirt, you don't have anything to be sorry or worried about.

Answer 15

well how old is your friends? cause if she's around 12-14 this is very typical. my sister and her friends are like this. it's kinda funny. just get your bangs cut. she'll get over it.