Why does my friend do this to me?

Question

every boy i really like... she always tries to steal him from me.

like she told me about this one boy that i really like... that she lead him on and talked to him all the time.

and she has always liked him before when she knew i liked him.

another one is when i went out with this other boy and she got him to dump me and go out with her?

this was alll during winter time.

and now i really like this other boy that i think she might steal ):

what should i tell her/do?

and what is her problem?

Answer 1

SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. lose her. real friends don't do that to each other. She can be doing it because she has low self-esteem and is jealous of the guys you get. So she think well if my friend can get him, if I can take him away, that means he likes me too and I'm just as good. She does it because she needs validation. It is no coincidence she goes after the guys that likes you! She has low self-esteem and feels good when she "takes" a guy away, because she feels that the guy really wanted her and she must be hot if he left you for her. She's not a friend. She needs a therapist and will hurt you even more someday when you really like a guy. I"m tell you lose her!