Why does my friend ignore me in school?

Question

I have a good friend of mine in 3 classes at school, and it seems like at school she always talks to her other friends but doesn't talk to me and she also seems annoyed by me too sometimes, I don't know why. I talk to her but she doesn't make long conversations like she does with her other friends, and it makes me feel upset at her because we have been friends for about 10 years now. But when we walk to my grandma's house everyday after school, she talks me more and does the long conversations that she does with her other friends. And she also comes over to my house sometimes. I don't know if it's because she talks to her other friends about different things than I talk to her about or what it is but it makes me feel jealous.

Answer 1

maybe she feels more comfortable in silence with she's with you..I know that kind of sounds strange, but you know how some people just make silence awkward? Well, maybe she thinks that when you both are silent it's not awkward.. you get what I'm saying? There also could be the fact that she could be drifting apart from you. And if that's the case, I'm sorry. =/

Answer 2

It IS odd if she actually behaves this way.

If it were me, I'd think she were avoiding conversing with me too much in school.

If it's really bothering you, and if you think you're as good of friends as you say, then on one of your walks home from school, you should straight out tell her how you feel and get an answer from her.

Answer 3

Well she obviously doesn't want people knowing that she's friends with you so she blows you off at school. That's really rude I would call her out about it infront of all of her friends to get back at her :)

Answer 4

(No offense) I think she is embarrassed  to be seen with you, and wants to avoid you but not make you feel like she doesn't like you.

Answer 5

Your friend is taking your friendship for granted b/c you have been friends for so long and she feels like she has nothing new to say to you and she doesn't get to see these other new friends as much.  I wouldn't be jealous but make other friends and when she is having long conversations with others then let her, but do the same thing with your other friends.  If she sees you have other friends and other interests and that you don't need her to hang around constantly, then she is liable to start seeking you out more in school and have longer conversations with you like she does her other friends.

Answer 6

Wow! 10 years! She probably just needs a small break and wants to meet new people. Leave it alone for awhile and it will be okay! She's wrong to treat you that way, but just let it go. Remember, let her meet new people and slowly you'll start hanging out more and more!

Answer 7

I know exactly what your talking about...

My best friend is doing the exact same thing...

she never wants to talk to me around her "new Best-friend" or anything and only calls me when she needs me to do something for her...

Maybe u 2 have become distant or shes just looking for some variety or something like you said...

Answer 8

this is really sad to hear because i have been friends with my friend for that long and she did the same thing to me and now we hardly ever talk so talk to her about this problem and fast!!  

Answer 9

shes embarrased to be around you  

Answer 10

Your so called "friend", probably doesn't exist.

Answer 11

maybe she wanna be cool  

Answer 12

Maybe she just wants to spend time with her other friends or she's just being a r****d.

Answer 13

i think ur friend is embrassed to be hanging around   she probably thinks  ur a nerd or dork or sumthing {no offence  cereal}    u got to talk to her and say If u want to be my friend dont be embrassed to hang around me at school  and ask her why she does these things

Answer 14

she is embarrassed to talk to you in front of her friends

Answer 15

SHE IS FAKE!!! DONT BE FRIENDS WITH HER!!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE!!!