Why does my girlfriend argue about every little thing?

Question

Hello, my girlfriend argues with me about every little thing that's not worth arguing about. She takes everything offensive, and she never lets her pride down for notting. Right or wrong she never backs down.

i take care of her i work i pay my half of the bills, i stay faithful to her i try tell her everything or talk to her about everthing, i'm always there for her i support her in everything.

I try to be romantic, buy her flowers gifts etc.. but she throws the flowers away. i took every harshful thing she said to me and just let it go. we have been together for 3 years, we hardly have s*x anymore, when i come on the computer i see all kinds of p**n sites popping out. I don't watch p**n. She doesn't make love to me anymore we make love like twice a month and thats it.

What do you think ids going on with her i tryedto talk to her but its impossible to get something possitive out of it.

Answer 1

Advice from the female gender:I have been with my love for 2 years now and trust me I have had my fair share of mood swings.

I hold out in the bedroom a lot,I take little jokes he says to offense,and I even make mean jokes towards him.

I have had a rough life and stress has caused a lot of the mood swings and what not.

As nice as you can be to her,maybe she needs space instead of romance.

Different women react differently to everything when they are under stress/pressure.

Is there any big decision making going on in her life or between the 2 of you?

Another important thing to remember too is that if you are loving someone who does not love you back,you are waisting time in finding that some one who will. Seeing as you have been with her for 3 years now,you should maybe be upfront and ask her unless this would cause an argument. If this is the case,then maybe you need to find a way around the arguing to get an answer.

If you guys are a young couple,maybe she is now feeling the need to go and experiment or have the liberty to be with someone else.

Maybe taking a break would help her to realize that she wont find another sweet human being like your self,and that she does love you in her heart of hearts.

Good luck with everything,I wish you only the best.

Answer 2

its easy for me to say because ive not been with her for 3 years and u probably care about her a lot, but please have some self respect and get out of a relationship like this. she is basically giving u mental abuse by picking fault with everything u are doing no matter how nice u are. throwing the flowers away is just pain nasty.

it sounds to me like she loves the drama and thinks she has u wrapped round her little finger. she can treat u how she wants and u will still be there for her.

you need to show her ur not a doormat. next time she argues with u over something ridiculous, tell her u are going to leave the room until she stops being so petty. tell her people have a lot worse things in their life to deal with and she is being a drama queen.

if she kicks off a fuss and gets even more angry, leave the house and go and stay at a friends for the night. turn your phone off.

Calmly text or phone her the next day and tell her you wont be treated like that and tell her it really hurts you that she feels such anger towards you.

she either wants to be with you or she doesnt. she cant have her cake and eat it. a proper relationship is about compromise and if shes not going to talk 2 u about why u annoy her so much or why she doesnt want s*x more etc then dont waste your time.

there are plenty of nice girls out there who would appreciate a nice boyfriend and make him feel special  

Answer 3

Hey, us women are all a bit high maintenance, but this ***** is over the top! She needs to be put out like the dog she is and made to fend for herself for a while and have some hardships happen in her life that teach her what's really important so she stops blaahhtin about the trivial stuff in life. Boy does she have a lot to learn. And the way she has treated you is going to come right around and smack her in the @ss, mark my words, then she will come crawling back to you begging for forgiveness. Tell her to P!ss off and find someone else, because by that time hopefully you will have enough respect for yourself to refuse to accept a person like that into your life.

Now start today.

Answer 4

sad, i'm sorry, have you tried actually confronting her about these issues in your relationship?  Although that might be hard because she'll take it offensively.  It sounds like you guys just are slowly growing apart in your relationship and its just not going to be the same as it was when you were first together.  Maybe you should suggest taking a break from each other.  This could mean you each realize you don't want to be together, or it might actually make you miss each other and reignite the relationship so she'll want to have s*x.  

Answer 5

It's time to pack up and leave.

Answer 6

I'm sorry to say my friend, but it seems like it's time to end it.

She seems like she doesn't respect you anymore, throwing away your gifts and telling you harmful things, on top of that, the intimacy in the relationship is obviously lost. Worst of all, if you've tried to speak to her about it and she doesn't see that positively then it sounds like you did your share of work towards enhancing the relationship.

Let her go, the relationship has gone sour.

Answer 7

She is a woman.  It will be like that until the end of time.  Sorry

Answer 8

time to leave so get while the going is good

Answer 9

Because she's on her period, or she is probally Bi-Polar, or she needs a man not a pushover punk.

Answer 10

First of all, all girls complain about everything.

Secondly, you should leave the relationship if neither of you seem to be getting what you deserve out of it.

DTB= Dump That *****!

Answer 11

Why would you put up with her c**p? Dump her. There are millions of great Ladies out there. The reason that she treats you like c**p is because YOU let her. No woman will have respect for a man that lets her dominate. Get some backbone. I promise you that if you start treating her like c**p, she will change 100%. Never bring flowers. And don't mention s*x until she wants it then, make it hard to get. Your life will change, big time.

Answer 12

this relationship just doesnt seem to be working. she lost feelings for u thats y she is picking stupid arguments. prob u r not satisfying her the way she likes thats she has turned to p**n i dont know just a thought. any way jus dump di ***** like wat the 1st answerer sed

Answer 13

Maybe she wants a dude to tell her what to do and be more aggressive or maybe you should try throwing her on the bed and l**k her all over, turn her around and spank her butt. Maybe she likes being naughty and she wants you to spank her. Don't give her any more flowers when you hear her complaining then she is starting to appreciate you. Be a little more harsh on her. She will come around. Her looking at p**n sites means she is horny and she wants it just like that. If nothing works then leave the tramp

Answer 14

I think you should try to talk with her and if that doesn't work just dump her and get on with your life, find someone you're happy with and forget her cause she obviously doesn't deserve you.

Answer 15

Sounds like she doesn't want to be with you anymore.

Answer 16

Ask yourself:

Why am I with someone "it's impossible to get something positive" from?

If I knew this is where we would be three years ago, would I have stuck with her?

Do I want to be in this situation in three (or thirty) more years?

Am I sticking with her because it is best for me and her, or because of pride I feel in being loyal to someone so harsh, or because I'm scared I'll never find anyone else to have s*x with twice a month?  Why am I with her?

Answer 17

dump the b*tch.  she is obviously unhappy with you.