Why does my grandmother HATE me????

Question

she hates me and i dont know why.

she had a sleepover at her house and it was for all the cousins which was like 4 people. and so my bro called to ask her if could go to and she said yes. then my bro asked if i could go to and she say that i would be ONE TOO MANY. and on snow days for school she never calls to see if we are ok. but my grandpa on the other side calls from FL to see if we are ok. and we live in CT.

im nice to her. i help her around her house and i keep her garden up and cook for her when i see her. but my other cousins swear at her and eat all her food and leave and she likes them better. any ideas why?

Answer 1

just ask her your are hurting from this so just ask then you know where you stand

Answer 2

stop helping her, it is obvious she doesnt appreciate your help, so if she doesnt appreciate what you do for her then she doesnt deserve it. hopefully one day she will realize what she had, but why keep putting yourself through this, there are people in this world who are like that, there's nothing you can do about it, so stop letting them hurt you.