Why does my husband always put me down in compeny?

Question

i should be use to it by now but it still hurts then i go in a mood for days

Answer 1

tell him then hes probly just trying to be playful

Answer 2

it sounds like he's insecure in himself so he feels that it makes him look 'big' to put you down in front of people. Have a word with him and let him know that it upsets you and he should stop.

Answer 3

what you mean "i should be used to it by now" dont ever say that..

its very wrong  for him to put you down wen ur in company or any other time...u should honestly say to him why he does it, if he thinks it looks good 2 show ppl he incontrol of your marriage then that is so bad!!

he probs thinks "yea i look cool" but his friends etc probley think that he treats you bad...nextime it happens just say to him. "I AINT YOUR DOORMAT OK SO STOP PUTTING ME DOWN INFRONT OF YOUR MATES TO LOOK GOOD"

or if you get on with 1 of his friends try and chat to them about it and see if they say "oh i was thinkin y is he being sad to his wife" .....

u shouldnt be able to just stand there and take stuff like that.

y dont u put him down nextime and see if he likes it..bet he wont!!

hope ive made sense..gdluck

Answer 4

He does it because he has an inferiority complex and he thinks it makes him look like the big man. You cannot stay with this man, he will never ever stop doing this. Life is too short to live any of it badly. I have thrown away a total of 8 years of mine and I'd do anything to get them back. I'm alone now and so happy.

Answer 5

Because you spell company wrong?

Answer 6

Firstly you should not be "used to it"..Thats not good.

And he needs to grow up and stop acting like an idiot and remember you are his wife and not an object, or a posession.

Answer 7

Time to slap him into next week. Men will only respect you, when you demand it. And men will walk all over you, and hurt you, and make you feel like complete sh*t, but if you stand up to them and be a complete b*tch...they will get the jist of it.

Seriously, doesn't sound like you demand too much of anything because if you did, he wouldn't be pulling any kind of c**p.

Answer 8

because he finds it funny

Answer 9

ask him straight out once and for all, if he's happy with you or not.

If he wants you, or not.

if he thinks that that's proper or not?

once he answers those questions, then I have some for you.

but overall, decide if you really want to spend more time with a guy like that? if not, let him go.

it's wrong. very wrong, to treat someone like that.

Answer 10

Next time he attempts it, cut him off mid-sentence and say "If you continue to belittle me in company, then I shall be (in the kitchen, in the ladies, over there etc;...) until you have finished.

Send 'whoever' to come and fetch me when you're done!

If he laughs or taunts you about it, keep a straight face, look right at him and ask "finished?" when he stops.

This will make him look awful and stupid and it will turn the tables.

You may feel guilty for a while, but it will eventually stop.

Answer 11

Because he obviously wants to look in control over you in front of his friends. According to men, putting your wife under the thumb is a great 'thrill'.

Talk to him about it - he's being an idiot. Make sure he knows how you feel about the situation.

Good luck!!

Answer 12

Because he has low self esteem...............throw comments rigth back at him!!!

Answer 13

Confront him whilst he`s doing it .. don`t be embarrassed .. no man should put you  down ...it shows a great lack of respect  and a controlling nature ..not good ... is he an a*sehole in general hun ...?   maybe you should think about leaving him ...

Answer 14

Go off on him in front of company. That'll break him of that.  

Answer 15

Because he doesn't respect you. And you should never get use to not being respected.

Answer 16

I hate men like that..he is so weak that he thinks by doning so..he is something..dont just stand and take it..SAY SOMETHING..let him hear your voice.."IM BETTER THAN THIS"