Why does my little boy do this?

Question

Right after my 3 1/2yr old little boy has been given a spanking,he will sit down and start tugging at the front of his pants,like he is trying to pull them away from himself.

He will do this for several minutes after a spanking,then eventually stop tugging.

He does this after about every spanking,does anybody have any ideas why he is doing that?

If you have a son,has he ever done that after a spanking,and if he has,did you find out why he was doing it?

Answer 1

Ive got 4 boys and they have never done that but then again they never get spanked I found out it doesn't do anything but hurt me.

Answer 2

Maybe he's shaken by the fact that his mom just spanked him?

Answer 3

Dont spank, dont spank, dont spank, dont spank, dont spank!

Answer 4

Think about what type of punishment could be done to yourself that would create the same kind of pain, trauma, and shame that being physically struck would do to a 3 year old.  

If someone were to hit you - to teach you a lesson - how would you respond.  And thats with a logical mind of an adult.

Answer 5

First of all STOP HITTING YOUR CHILD.  There is no reason to hit a small child.  I would say that because you hit him it is a form of self hatred, that there is something "bad" about him that makes you hit him and he is trying to remove that "bad" so you will stop hitting him.  The next phase is him hitting other kids, if he is in preschool you can pretty much expect having problems in that area because you have taught him to hit.  I can't imagine why ANY parent would want to use physcial violence against their child...and I suspect that is what your child is thinking.  "Why is my mommy hurting me?"  It is so unnecessary.

Answer 6

hes probly trying to take the pain away and hes surprised that his mom just spanked him.

Answer 7

Lol, mine still does this and he's 5. i think they think that if they pull their pants away from it then it won't hurt no more.

Answer 8

Sounds like Frustration. And that's just his way of dealing with it.

Answer 9

But in your other question you are planning on having s*x for the first time...so how could you have a little boy? I think you are mis-using the answers forum and should stop before i report you.