Why does my manager at work, who flirts with me quite a bit, stares at me when he things I am not looking...?

Question

call me 'good girl' when I fulfil one of my duties or responsibilities and apprise him of the fact? Good girl? He is only six years older then me by the way , Im nearly twenty and he is twenty six? Do you think he is interested in taken in hand style relationships?or is looking for a submissive female and is testing the waters to see If I do not break his teeth for speaking to me in what is often termed a pejorative manner?

Answer 1

That large hairy mole on your nose is kind of hypnotizing , I find myself staring at it when you're not looking too.

Answer 2

Maybe he likes you or is falling in love with you.

I really doubt people are looking for "submissive women"

Anyway, i guess it would be better to you to not making him angry, not listening to him or not following his flirts is OK, but you shouldn't make your manager angry or you could loose your job/

Answer 3

He's a loser.  The world is unfortunately full of them....

Answer 4

Granted I am a large critic of feminism and miss use of the judicial system but you seem to have a valid complaint of sexual harassment.

    You could try talking to your manager, but more likely then not you might have to talk to your managers boss.

Worst case scenario you might have to talk to an attorney but you shouldn't give in.

No one should ever have to deal with harassment at work, so don't start now. Stand up for yourself and make your feelings crystal clear.

Answer 5

Sounds like a condescending prick that needs a smack upside the head I wouldn't suggest actually hitting him though, next time he does something in his job description say "thanks that's a good boy"

or when he gives you some work to do "good boy, i was looking for something to do, way to go!"

Maybe after you call him good boy enough he will stop calling you good girl

Answer 6

Tell him firmly to stop if it bothers you.

Answer 7

I have to say that I do not understand the following > Do you think he is interested in taken in hand style relationships? <.

Why does he stare at you when he things you're not looking...?

Anyone’s answer would be a guess, but likely is has a 'sexual' content at its base.  Given the type of content, ''the desire for a submissive'' would be purely conjecture on my part ...and from what you have described, likely a strong contender too.

If you don't, as it were, respond well to his pejorative mode of speech and its associate behaviours, maybe he is still assessing you for some additional (hopeful) reasoning’s he has!

Sash.  

Answer 8

He sounds like a creep.  You need to assert yourself and tell him how you feel about it.

Answer 9

I can't tell you his intentions but I can say that if you find this offensive you should politely let him know. If you don't find it offensive then no one can tell you that you should be offended. Either way, you can not let others determine how you should or shouldn't feel.