Why does my mom hate me. =,(?

Question

my mom hates me so much.

i swear.

i cry myself to sleep every night.

it just hurts so much.

she always tells me she hates me, and that shes never buying anything for me.

but then she pays $2400 for my sister to go on a 1 week field trip.

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i havent gone shopping since september of 2007..

when ever we go to the mall and i want to get something, she never gets it for me.

when ever i ask for anything, she always says no extra rudely.

she always says she doesnt care about me.

and she always says "i'll always buy anything for your sisters, but i'll never buy or do anything for you"

Answer 1

Aw im sorry =( My mom is like that too. She is an alcoholic, and she feels guilty about what she did to my father(who died 3 years ago) so she takes it out on me. She has always like my sister more, and would buy her anything. I love my mom to death, but sometimes she doesn't love me very much! Just know that its nothing you did... Thats just her. tough it out until you can move out, and then you never have to talk to her again! Im sorry =(

Answer 2

sadly maybe she hads something going on with men are your parents together if not them maybe he cheated he left he hit her mentally abused her if its really that bad and she really does say that without u saying it first then u need to ask her to sit down with you and tell her how you feel tell her your not happy and you do cry everynight and you need to pour your heart out to her have her understand that if some guy has somehting to her thats not your fault   but you do have to understand if your being a cry baby and yelling i hate you and shes saying oh ok i hate you too or i dont care about you mom and shes saying cool yheah i dont care about you either  your just bringing it on

Answer 3

im so sorry:(

talk to her. im sure she may be stressed out. talk to your dad about it too, and ask him what you should do and if there is anything you can do for her.

Answer 4

get a job, buy it yourself.

io know how you feel,

but at least she doesnt abuse you.

or does she..?

and i know you cant talk to her.

i hate when people always say that too.

but you dont need to talk to her.

sounds like she doesnt deserve it.

Answer 5

I really feel sorry for you honey,I might have suggested that your wrong but IF she really says that to you then I guess she does for some reason, Is your father the same for all you kids? Are you the last born? I think you should talk to your school counselor and have you and your mother get together with the counselor to try to figure out what the problem really is. But hang in there, none of this is your fault. your mother has a problem and hopefully it can be worked out..

Answer 6

are you f*cken seriously?

if i were you, i would jack her money or call the police.

thats bullshet.  

Answer 7

tell your mom you love her :)

confront her!

maybe she's jealous of you, you're probably prettier and smarter then she was when she was your age, and she envies you for it.

Answer 8

Ok two things sweetie.

One most important, I would try and find some other family member to live with, or at the most report her for abuse. You do have some control there babe, no matter how old you are.

Second thing is. Where is your dad?? There has to be some underlining reason why your mom treats you that way.

Here are some possibilities, I am an outsider, so what I am about to say might not even apply to you. Ok.

1) She might have had a bad relationship with your father, and you remind her everyday of him. This is not something you can help, and it is something that could be out of her control as well.

2) She was raped, and you resemble her attacker.

3) She went through postpartum depressing after having you, and was never properly treated for that.

4) She abuses some kinda drug, legal or illegal.

5) She is just plan crazy.

These are some of my guesses. I know what this is like, I grew up with and alcoholic mother. And a mental abusive father. I feel you sweetie.

No matter what the underlining cause is, you need to remove yourself from the home ie go to another family member, or get in contact with some kinda authority.

I wish you the best of luck, and I truly hope you find a way outta there.