Why does my mom not want me to see my boyfriend everyday?

Question

i'm 18, and we have been together for a year and my mom likes my boyfriend. but she has a big problem with me seeing him everyday, and i don't know why? whether it's going to his house or him going to mine alternating days, or me going to his house day after day, she doesn't want me seeing him everyday.

Answer 1

shes probably thinking if you see him so much its getting serious and shes afraid of losing you.

Answer 2

she is just tryin got keep you focused on the important things in life. Its nothing towards your boyfrined, but im pretty sure you mom know wahts on his mind, and she's is doing what she can to prevent you from becoming too involved in prince charming. Believe me, you'll be thankful five to ten years from now,

Until then, take heed to your moms advice, it can save you ALOT of time and pain, you're too toung to be all serious anyway. Go to college, experience life, and follow your dreams.

Trust me, moms knows whats up. she was 18 once too, dont forget that!

GL

Answer 3

Maybe because there is a whole world out there that you could be missing out on! Spending all your time with one person means less time for other things. She probably just doesn't want to see you settle.

Answer 4

well, why would you want to see them every day? after awhile, you need a break. even the parents of teh other person in the relationship need a break. maybe you should think that the parents woul dlike to spend time with the child alone to talk or hang out or even just to be.  

Answer 5

Your mom may be concerned that your spending too much time with your boyfriend, and that your life consists of pretty much him. It's great that you and your boyfriend spend lots of time together, and obviously you must have a very healthy and strong relationship to be able to spend lots of time together. To ease your mom, it might help to go out with the girls or spend the day with her. Even group dates would probably work with her.

And there's nothing like a Girls Day Out!

I hope I helped

Answer 6

my dad wants me to spend thursdays and tuesdays at home on with my family lol i understand how you feel x

Answer 7

My mom is actually the same...my bf and i try to spend 24/7 together.

Here are the two reasons I think why:

1, Your mom wants to spend time with you; If you're with your bf all the time, she doesn't get to see you much.

2, Your mom doesn't want you to become too attached/too dependent on your bf. This is so, in case you guys break up, it won't be as big of a loss if your heart isn't 100% in the relationship.

Answer 8

It is likely that your mom wants to see you working or going to college so you can make something of your life, instead of just hanging out or settling for just being a housewife. If you can enter the adult phase of your life from a position of strength, meaning an education and a career, you will have much greater stability and security... you won't be dependent on some guy. Putting it mildly, these pages of Yahoo Answers are loaded with young women who wound up having to move back home with their parents after failed relationships and having kids. It is tough to start out with that kind of burden and no job skills.

You really should be making plans to launch. If you have not enrolled in a local university, at least go enroll in the community college, most of which have excellent 2-year vocational training courses to help you fast-track in to a good paying job. Work at least part-time while getting your education and save your money.

Answer 9

Well at 18 you really have your own say but it does show, just how caring you are, being so considerate of your mothers feelings at your age, I think you Mom just wants you too not put all your eggs in one basket.  I think you should try and have your boyfriend come over some of the days your "allowed" to see him and let your Mom see in him what you do, I know, hang out with your Mom on your alone time but trust me the more you let her see what's really there the more alone time you'll be "allowed" to have ....hope that helps!

Answer 10

Because it is unhealthy being so attached to someone. You need to be more independent.

Answer 11

Look truth of the matter is you are 18 and can make your own decisions. If you really love and care for your bf then it's time for you to move on and leave "the nest". If you are not ready for that then do as your mom says. And if you dont live with your mom then you have to explain to her its your decision and you have took what she said into consideration.

Ultimately it is your decision and do not let what other ppl say change your mind and heart.