Why does my mother insist on torturing me when I'm in a bad mood?

Question

Whenever I'm upset my mom purposefully does stuff that she knows will just make the situation much much worse. Like today, she knows I'm in pain and feeling like S**t. So anyways I called my aunt to chat with her, and my mom answered, and then rudely hung up on me, after that my aunt called back and ended up giving the phone to my mom, them my mom started singing horribly to me, so I hung up, and then someone called back, so thinking it was my mother I picked up and vented saying "You know know what douche bag quit F***ing calling me I F***ing hate you" it would have been great had it not been my dad brother.

she constantly does stuff to get me in trouble,and it hurts.

She acts like its a game, she thinks its funny. but it really just makes my life h**l.

it feels like shes torturing me, how can I make it stop?

Answer 1

WOW!

Teenage drama, much????

Answer 2

im a little ticked at the people who are saying to respect her more

i mean

come on

can u see what her mom is doing doing

it doesn't matter if its her mom. if she does that she doesn't deserve the respect

it doesn't matter who it is

don't give people to much respect until they earn it, and if they do something like that than don't give it to them

just stop talking to her

don't say a word

ever

don't cry in front of her or anything

i know its hard but eventually she will realize what she lost and u can become close again

and if not

she didn't deserve u anyway

Answer 3

well first off, learn how to speak to her with respect.. she is your mother not a friend. Maybe you will notice a difference if you start to show some respect to her.

Be GOOD!!!

Answer 4

if i were you i would say mo i am growing up to HATE you, by the way you act (and say how she acts ~ details).

Answer 5

well first off, learn how to speak to her with respect.. she is your mother not a friend.. i would have beat the top of my children if they ever spoke to me like that. Maybe you will notice a difference if you start to show some respect to her.

Answer 6

like OMG your life sounds sooooo horrible!

Answer 7

I would have to agree with the first poster. Your language and attitude need a major adjustment. Your mother is not

torturing you. You are behaving like a spoilt two year old.

If your mother teases you laugh it off. If you can't then leave the room the house the neighbourhood and for goodness sake never answer the phone liike that again. It not only

sounds like a two year old it sounds like a two year old with a potty mouth. You appear to have a lot of growing up to do.

Answer 8

Your family sounds a bit odd.....normal people don't do that.

Answer 9

Its called Sadism, getting pleasure from torturing other people.

She probably gets a bigger rush from torturing you since there is supposedly the mother/daughter bond.

You could talk to a counselor if you thought you needed to, but they would just tell you to change what you can change and accept what you cannot.  You can't change her, you can only accept her.  You can change the way you deal with her.