Why does my mum not love me?

Question

Why does she love my older brother and my younger brother more.

But especially my older brother

:(

Answer 1

Can I tell you fom an adults perspective? There is really only so much you can do. And in the end you leave home and it doesn't matter so much. Maybe you could try making her feel like she is a good parent and how much she has helped you with...something.

There is also the flipside: my mother didn't think her mother liked her either. But found out years and years later that it wasn't true.

I know - everyone expects their mother to love them but sometimes...well it doesn't always happen, does it.

Anyway one day for sure you will be someones favourite person in the whole world. Promise you that !

Answer 2

if she loves both your brothers she loves you too. your the middle child,  its only natural you feel a little left out. ive always heard the middle child needs more attention. talk to your mom. im sure she can help straighten this out for you. ok.

Answer 3

yep its probably bcuse you bein the middle child. even my brother feels the same(he's a middle child). But dont worry your mom still worries 4 u but she wont express it very well atleast not verbally but she does love you. my mom tells me tht but not to my bro.

Answer 4

i think she love you the same if she didnt she would not have had you i have 4 kids and i love them all the same sometimes when yo arethe middle child you feel left out cause the older brother gets to do everything befor you and the younger sometime gets away with things but that doesnt mean she loves you any less

Answer 5

you were probably an unplanned pregnancy.

Answer 6

either you were an accident or you were adopted

oh and im sorry to hear that

Answer 7

cuz she probably likes boys more. sorry for that

Answer 8

It's a known fact the middle child is always the one that parents worry least about. We are self sufficient, we don't depend on our parents for anything. And at the same time we don't trust as easy. The oldest is always the most loved because they were first and the youngest is always protected. My youngest brother is 21 and still spoiled.