Why does nobody like me?

Question

I am 13 and going into the 8th grade in Middle School and I am like the only person in the whole school with no friends. I am a loner. Last school year I barely talked at all! In 6th grade people would call me a f****s and say I am bisexual and I am discusting. And everyone saids "Nobody likes you so shut up!" I am not mean to anyone! Why!

this is me by the way

http://s511.photobucket.com/albums/s352/Justme25_bucket/?action=view&current=summer053.jpg

Answer 1

just act like yourself i'm sure you'll make a friend just give it time.

Answer 2

The same thing happened to me when I was around your age. If I could've done anything different, I would have stood up for myself more. As hard as it is, try not to let it get to you. Most people go through this at some point in their lives. Just be yourself and keep your head up. Once more people start to get to know you, they will like you.Kids tease you because they want to get a rise out of you. They will stop when they know it doesn't bother you anymore.  It will eventually pass. Just be strong.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Oh wow they must be liars or jealous. Your not ugly at all. People can just be mean, and you have to not let it get to you. I don't have a lot of friends either, but the ones I do have are great =3

And we all don't care what other people think. You just gotta take time and find those special friends.

Answer 4

Your picture shows a very cute girl.  When you go to school be friendly, speak to people, and keep your eye out for someone that seems to be by themselves a lot.  Go up to that person and be friendly, like ask them to sit by them for what class they have or who their teachers are, anything to start a conversation.  I am sure there are others that feel the same as you.  As far as people calling you names, you don't need them, they aren't friend material!!!

Answer 5

kids are immature and stupid. sometimes they say things just to look cool. its always gonna be a bully everywhere you go and they probally just do it for attention for people to laught at them you are very pretty and just be strong. don't let it get to you, if they see your hurt they might just do it more. also talk to a teacher about it, the teachers and you could even get a meeting set up with your parents and the main person who bothers you parents to let them know what their kid is doing.  

Answer 6

youre really pretty!

my suggestion is that you should join any teams or groups at your school, honestly...it is like fool proof, and you will definatly have many friends!

Answer 7

Try not to care what anybody thinks, If you do care and get upset then thats sort of like leaving an opening a door they can climb through to step all over you. There has to be at least one person who likes you or wants to hang out with you, I've been treated just like that in the past. I know how difficult it is too actually not care what anybody thinks, thats why you need a rock to land on, a friend or even someone who treats you well can help you deal with these things. If it's a lot of people and on a daily basis talk to your mom and ask her what she thinks you should do. Try. And remeber EVERY school year there is at least one new kid, maybe this school year you'll meet a person who likes you for who you are.  

Answer 8

ur pretty....dont worry what other people say....just make some rude comment back to them....dont let them walk all over u

Answer 9

reading ur explanation is not a good reason.just because u might be big doesn't mean that you cant have friends.people probably are just trying to hurt you.you need to stand up 4 ur self.those people are just rude and will probably end up with no jobs when they grow up because thier specialty is to make fun of people.so dont let that bring you down.now you can let people talk about you and say this and that but dont you believe it.believe in ur self and u will make friends!!!!

Answer 10

People just put other people down to make them self's popular or to make their self's feel good. I think your pretty and you shouldn't listen to what other people have to say about you.  Their NOT worth it.

Answer 11

Wow , your'e really pretty - and i'm not just saying that

mabey you should try talking to people a bit more, it sounds like your a bit shy .

I feel really sorry for you , it's discusting when people are mean to others for no reason like that . Please ignore them !

I'm sorry i can't help more :)

Answer 12

well for starters you shouldnt believe what people tell you because you dont look fat and you do look like your a nice person but you should try to be more open and if making friends is hard for you then just try to join a sport or a club and that could help you make more friends and if someone tells you something dont be afraid to tell them off because that will show people that you do have a mouth and that you can be nice but that if thier going to treat you like c**p then your going to treat them like c**p as well. hope this hleps you and hope your eight grade year is better then seventh.  

Answer 13

life is hard... try to make a friend with someone who is quiet just like you. don't try to be friends with anyone that would even THINK to say such harmful words.

Answer 14

Sorry, but kids are cruel

Answer 15

I honestly have no clue. Depending on the situation, either you don't open yourself enough or they can't seem to understand you. Try connecting people that barely know you by common interests and topics. This is too cliche, but you should be yourself. If people start trouble for you, then I don't think you would want those kind of people as friends anyway.  

Answer 16

kids are mean, dont worry you'll find a friend, just be friendly and look confident,

chin up =]

Answer 17

Focus on something positive about yourself.. the more you like yourself,, the more others will like you. I know it sounds lame, but it actually works that way. Have you ever heard your dad say "if momma's not happy then no one is happy". It is the truth, if you are happy with you, then others will be too. Start thinking that everyone likes you, and act like it too. You will see a big difference.

Answer 18

some people are just no good,try to talk to  people about sports,about the greenhouse effect,talk about music,in fact try to write down notes how you will talk ,there is a book about making friends, you can get it from amazon,also try to walk a lot and watch what you eat,you will go far in life but unfortunately there are people who pick on other people,you can also take up martial arts,learn kempo karate, also do a lot of situps also raise your legs and then raise your chest from ground posistion,before you know it your appearance will be muscular and don't let these jerks get you down,also speak to a therapist,i know what you are  going through!

Answer 19

Don't be upset because most kids are really mean and don't even try to get to know someone and base their judgements on what they see. I think you should try to look for someone whose been nicest to you or someone whose quiet and doesn't seem to have many friends either. You'll find someone! Being in the 8th grade is hard because everyone thinks they are so grown up and have the right to say anything. Just carry on with your school life and don't even think about those people.

Ignore them and all will go well!

Good Luck!

Answer 20

Okay, honestly. These people will all say "omg, I don't  know why those kids at school would say that. you're reeally pretty."

But come on. If that's true, then how come everyone at school is being a jerk to you.

Fact of the matter is, you don't need friends. What you need is a diet. You're not UGLY. But you could do much better. Lose some of that fat. The more fat you'll lose, the more friends you'll gain. That's the truth. That fat is not healthy anyway.

But in my opinion, it's just 8th grade. High school's what matters. And there you will meet much more people who are exciting and like you for you, whether you're a supermodel or a sumo wrestler.

Answer 21

if u act like a loner youll be looked @ like your a loner. i live life pretty much focused on me not what other people think! don't try 2 fit in be different be yourself! find something your good @ in life and pursue your passion. live 4 a purpose! don't live for others

and another thing that gts me through the day z jesus! it makes me feel good knowing he knows me n loves me more then i do 4 myself!

Answer 22

sweetie ur BEAUTIFUL!!! omg all the people in ur school must be mad to not want to be ur friend!

it is their loss!!

Try out some after school activities or something..or mabie a little job to meet more people and help ur confidence?

Good luck!

Get in touch and let me no how ur doing....if you want to x

Answer 23

I am sorry that you are put in this mess. Thousands of people are in the position that you are in right now. Let me make something clear.

People tease you because they're INSECURE.

They find someone to pick on because they're afraid to be picked on. If it gets worse, tell the principal or teachers. Also join a club that you are interested in and you'll probably make some friends. Try to reach out to people and maybe they'll reach out to you.

Hoped I helped. :)

Answer 24

People are a**holes and I am afraid that you will have to learn to deal with it. And yea, you're quite unattractive and fat.

Answer 25

Oh thats so sad ! ): People are b*****s, Maybe you should join like a youth group at your church, people will be nice to you there for sure, just try different groups (: