Why does pornography come as an inevitable necessity to most men?

Question

1. I understand that we as women are beautiful creatures. What I fail understand, is if you have a lady, why must you seek out others, through p**n? Are these attractive women in our life not enough for your needs? 2.I have been asked "Well, you look at other people, don't you?"-and yes, we all note other attractive people, but I don't give them a sexual response. 3. That, and would you approve your girlfriend, mother, sister or even daughter participating in p**n. Why is okay to support other people in something you don't believe your loved ones should do? 4. Would it be asinine to ask a man to give it up, and expect them to eliminate it from their relationship?… Last, men:: Have you ever given up p**n completely for someone you love/ what makes a lady worth that sacrifice?

Answer 1

Men are visual creatures. Women tend to get turned on mentally where as men get turned on visually.

Why ask them to give it up? It's harmless. At the end of the day, wouldn't you rather he was looking at p**n than sleeping with other women?

Whether you like it or not, your man is going to think about s*x often. The only difference with pornography is that there is an image there that you can see too. He'd only be picturing it in his head otherwise.

Let him fantasize. He'll do it with or without your permission, so you may as well be open-minded about it.  

Answer 2

you go girl.I feel the same way.They are disgusting perverted f####!

Answer 3

because they suck in bed?

p**n always existed. just that it was more discrete and men watched in in private and didn't talk about it as they do now

Answer 4

Because men aren't designed to be monogamous, they just do it to humor women. Thus they go the p**n route.  

Answer 5

OK so careful with the generalisations here. In my experience...

1. Men aren't the only ones who use at p**n.

2. No one 'needs' p**n (except, maybe, p**n addicts, who usually end up getting help)

3. This is just my personal opinion, but I think some people give p**n way too much significance. We can be perfectly satisfied with our partners and still want to watch some p**n every now and then, it's a change of scenery and doesn't harm anyone.

4. When we watch p**n we're not usually looking at the actors/actresses' faces, there are more exciting things to look at ;) Obviously it helps if they're attractive, but their faces are not the focus of the entire movie.

5. I wouldn't have a problem with one of my relatives participating in p**n, as long as she worked for an ethical producer who made sure every actor/actress was tested and clean, and who treated employees well. Oh and I'd want to know which movies to avoid ;)

6. I think asking someone to give up p**n is like asking someone to give up drink. If it's an occasional treat then there's no need to give it up, however if they couldn't live without their p**n fix every day then it would be wise to get help.

Answer 6

...pornography is adult entertainment at the expense of young women doing various sexual acts...is it forced or not is the question...

...is it wrong...i doubt it...it goes back to the beginning of time...have you notice...the legal age is 18...will it go lower only time will time...

...i haven't given up on pornography, its entertainment...

...thanks for asking...