When someone dies, do we tell their loved ones to suck it up and move on?
When someone gets a new job, do we tell them to shut up, we don't want to hear their excitement?
When someone stubs their toe, do we laugh at their pain?
Didn't think so. So why does everyone get so uncomfortable about that one little emotion - anger? It's just like any other emotion. It deserves validation the same as any other emotion.
Why do some folks get all freaked out at the idea that someone might not be falling all over themselves with excitement and gratefulness because - through no fault of their own - they lost out on the opportunity to be raised by the folks who created them? I'm sure some have positive feelings about that type of situation, but I don't understand why it's so difficult to comprehend a few negative emotions about not knowing the people whose genes and history you share.
And why can some not see how some anger is warranted when one segment of society is treated unequally under the law? I'm a feminist - I don't like being treated differently from men. Simple. I can understand how an adopted person might get a tad huffy about not being treated with equal respect to a non-adopted person.
Why the confusion? Why is anger seen as somehow less valid, less worthy, less "right" than any other emotion?
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