Why does she always attack my position or viewpoint?

Question

I have a friend who I love very much; she is also my roomate in college. I have known her since the sixth grade. She is beautiful, funny, etc.. We have never gotten into a huge confrontation or brawl with each other over these past years that we have known each other, But, there have been many times when it seems like there is craziness between us...for example...there have been many times when she will try to flaunt herself infront of me, she has attacked my positions and viewpoints numerous times whenever we have had a conversation about a certain thing...she always says what she would do, etc...she has even called me crazy infront of a dude that likes her. Now, by no means am I the least bit crazy. I just feel like i can't share too many ideas with her without having them attacked and having to defend my position. I have to choose wisely what I am going to say to her. What is the deal with my friend? I really need to understand her motives.

Answer 1

Honestly, I think that your friend is trying to make herself look better than you and trying to make you feel low. That to me is not a friend.

Answer 2

make some new friends

Answer 3

If the two of you share a general mutual respect for one another with a few exceptions then you can agree to disagree on those few, and for the sake of your friendship avoid discussing theses topics with each other