Why does she run away from me when i don't even look or say anything to her?

Question

we had a huge fight and now its basically over..but i am not scared of her...she is...she runs away from me...b4 she always used to hang out at her locker and now she doesnt..she moved her locker to another building...i have forgoten about her and made new friends....and now she is acting really weired...its not like i care about her..becoz she doesnt care about me and thats why we split up....so why is she being so weird around me and my friends.......and she was never impt to me....she was a burden...because of her i could not have anyn friends...everyone hated her...and everyone thought i was like her wen i am not...and i was only with her...becoz she had no other friends...now its over...but y does she run away from me....if i ever see her...can't she just stop doing this....if she sees me...fine but there is no need to run away from me...JUST TO TELL U I AM HAPPY THAT SHE IS NOT MY FREND>>>I AM HAPPY TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS>>WHO UNDERSTAND FRENDSHIp..

wats ur opinion

Answer 1

Look not outside but turn yourself inwards and ask- what's wrong with me. I know that is tough at the beginning. But you soon find real peace and comfort in yourself. You will not be too bothered how and what people react. You let go and no longer attached to the things the other person do.

Let it go.

Meditate if you can.

Answer 2

i think she might of have realized what she was doing was wrong by being mean to your friends and so now she's embarrassed of it and she just doesn't want to stand up to you. but why would you care? aren't you happy she's not a friend anymore?

Answer 3

If you didn't care, it wouldn't matter.  And if it didn't matter, you wouldn't've written this question.  So what you should be asking is, "Why do I notice that she's running away if I didn't even look at her?"  

You're still emotionally attached on some level, otherwise how she is acting wouldn't bother you or even make you curious.