Why does the condom hurt my Boyfriend?

Question

My boyfriend said that the condoms hurt his p***s and make it feel like its suffocating them, especially at the tip around the base, and this prevents him from enjoying s*x. Is there another brand or type of condom that wont do this? And why does it do this?

We've been using various trojan brands.

Answer 1

Ok, here is the deal, my boyfriend and I love to have s*x and he is more concerned about a condom then I am and also finds in painful. We can only have s*x every other day to give him p***s a chance. We have also been looking at different condoms but nothing does the job. It has nothing to do with wanting to go with out. We have discussed that option and I am on birth control. Instead of giving your reasons why guys want to go with out try helping to answer the actual question. Does anyone know of a good condom brand that will not be uncomfortable for men? I like the idea above about a drop of lub in the tube, that may work.

Answer 2

I'm so indescribably irritated by all of these 'he's lying to you!' responses whenever I read this question anywhere. Holy s**t.

Have a look at any condom site and note the measurements. Maybe you'll have better results than I have, but I've never been able to find anything longer than 210mm or (more importantly) wider than 56mm. The vast majority, in fact, measure about 180mm in length and 52mm in width. Considering the great range of sizes of erect penises, this is absurd.

If the p***s the condom is being placed on is too large, it's going to be like having a rubber band around your finger until it turns purple whilst rubbing it repeatedly through a constricting finger-shaped receptacle.

'If he wants it bad enough he'll wear a condom.' Sure, if his turn-ons include watching his blood vessels burst until the local hospital lops it off. This line of thought is absurd.

I wouldn't dream of saying of a woman, 'If she wants it bad enough, she'll f**k a baseball bat,' or, 'If she wants it bad enough, she'll deal with the pregnancy and self-abort with a baseball bat.'

We _are_ discussing s*x for pleasure, right? I mean, if she wants to simply milk him for his seed and then ritually sacrifice his agonized husk to Sleyaa'at in her basement, I'm not here to judge, but I'm assuming that's not the case.

Of course condoms are intended to be safe rather than pleasant, but this isn't just discomfort.  Not only is the problem extremely painful, it is also carries the same risk as very constrictive c**k-rings. Great if you want a giant blue Dr. Manhattan p***s with permanent purple welts.

Jesus Christ. f**k you people until you can make, or refer us to, bigger condoms. Until then, I'd rather dry hump an electric fence. Because I just want it that badly, you know. I'm an animal like that.