Why does this alway happen to us men? (Brothas & Sistas are def. welcome!)

Question

My fellow men and women!

I met this chick in the club right, so she wants to dance. So we start dancing, having a good time, then she pops up and tells me that she's married with 1 or 2 kids, or divorced.

Then she brings up the fact that she has a job, and don't need a man to support her b/c she makes enough to take care of herself (not that I said she couldn't or anything) but I took it as she had to throw that it in. Why do women do this? What should I do when an attractive female does this?

It was almost like she had to come clean with this stuff before I accepted it and was cool with it, know what I mean ?

Answer 1

She probably wanted to give you a heads up from the get-go so there are no suprises in the loing run. She told you about her kids so that you arent surpised if you two decided to take it further than just at the club, but then she says that she doesnt need a man financially meaning 'dont worry just because i have kids doesnt mean im out here looking for a sugar-daddy'

Answer 2

she doesn't want it to be a suprise later on, or do you want that to happen?

Answer 3

It sounds to me like she's been hurt in the past before. Perhaps she has begun to really like someone only for them to reject her once they found she had kids. By telling you straight away it saved her getting really into you then rejected.  

Answer 4

maybe she wanted to set the record straight to begin with. dancing and no more.

Answer 5

Haha I dunno but I like a girl who's I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T.  do you know what that mean man. She got her own house. She got her own car. Two jobs work hard you a bad broad.