Why does this always happen with my best fried and I?

Question

Okay so this has happened to me a lot in the past and most likely going to happen again. So it all started in grade 7 supposed to be fun last year at elementary school turned out to be like a drama show like gossip girl and stuff like this. Okay well there was a few new girls in our class they turned out to be so nice and had great personalities especially this one girl in particular her name was Nichole. so my Friend and I are having a sleep over and he asks me so do like anyone? and I'm like yea and hes like who? And I'm like Nichole And hes like all cool and says yea shes pretty nice then i ask him same question and hes like no not really. So next week we have this terry fox run and i we had some free time before and we were playing truth or dare me my Friend nichole and my other friend alex. So Nichole asks who's every ones best fired who's a girl. And i said hey then you have to say who your best guy friend is and shes like fine. None of us really wanted to say so we all wrote our answears on a piece of paper but as nichole was going to write her answear my best Friend did something really annoying and he was like hey guys why are we writng on a piece of paper lets just say our answears out loud so before nichole wirtes her answear we all have to say it out loud all 3 of us choice nichole and the look on her face was so like wow they all like me in that way that the peple i dont pick will be sad so she wrote tom cruise (lol) And i said come on nichole just say it and she was like but i dont want to hurt anyones feelings and then i was like okay thats fine. so by the time its over our terry fox run begins i ask nichole is she wants to come wih me and m best friend were walking down the hall and nichole had to go get her water bottle and while she was getting it my firend was like hey i acctually do like some one and at this point im not quite sure (I know pretty dumb of me not to know) so i say who and hes like you will find out so when nichole comes back we start the terry fox my best friend is making a lot of jokes and he does not usally do that so about 45 minutes in nichole tells us guys stop i need to talk to you and she says guys i know you both like me and my best friend says ya i do and at this point im so blind sighted that i almost choked on my water and she asks me so do you like me to and im like yes i do and shes like al right just wanted to make sure so both my and my best friend have the same thoght in mind so which 1 of us do you like? we were both thinking but didnt want to ask and luckilly nichole says you guys are probably thinking so which one of us do u like? and were like yea. and after the terry fox run is over my best friend says this hey nichole if i were you i would go for Lance ( thats me) because it seems he really likes you and you guys would be happy. at this point im like wow thats so nice of him to say but sure enogh it just seemed that he only said it to show nichole how nice he was and it worked and the end of the day she says to me hey i know you like me but im not sure i like you and she tells my friend hey i know u like me and thank you so eventally they end up together the girl i like for about a month and it seemed he like her for 1 day and they had 3 fights and got back together 2 times and this goes on for about a year. it always seems the girl i like he always starts to like the same 1 and they always go for him his life is a fair tale up to this point still

Answer 1

a hint--this is IMPOSSIBLE to read--please think about going back & splitting up this huge paragraph into smaller paragraphs. After that more of us can read it easier & then perhaps help you out.

Answer 2

First: punctuation!  get to love it

Secondly: he is your best friend for a reason.  He probably has a lot of good qualities that you and others see in him.  Also, you are probably similar in a lot of ways so it is not surprising that he would like the girls that you like.  

It doesn't sound like he tried to get Nichole from you, it just worked out that way.  It is unfair to imagine that he had bad motives when you do not really know if he did.

I think you are smart enough to realize that the relationships that you have at this stage in your life are going to be mostly short and sweet and are not worth losing your best friend over.

If you do not want to be in competition with him for girls try joining a club or something without him.  

Answer 3

If he's taking all the girls that you are interested in, and he knows you like them, then he is not being a good friend. Maybe you should find some new friends because it sounds like this guy only wants to take what you want and upset you.

Answer 4

holy ****...thats too long for me to read

Answer 5

maybe if he tell him how u fill about this he might understands how u fill if he dont go to plan (b) get a new bestfriend  

Answer 6

This is not a real best friend and don't tell him who you like anymore. It seems like it's a game to him and he doesn't care that you're getting hurt.

Answer 7

  Sometime life really sucks when your growing up doesn't it? Seems to me your best friend really isn't  a very nice guy after all. The thing about that is he will get a reputation for liking a girl for a little while and then once they are dating, he really doesn't care that much.

   Seems to me, he just wants to be able to say i dated her first.

  Don't you worry, one day soon, there will be this super nice and cute girl  that will notice you and really like you and will not even give your friend a second look, she will only have eyes for you. So you my friend will be the big winner in the end :)

  

Answer 8

Eventually, none of that c**p will matter.