Why does this keep happening to me

Question

People don't respond to me, get me off the phone asap, talk about me in suddle ways, & expect me to wait around until they get ready to acknowledge me. I feel like some ppl re just stringing me along. I have no friends and I'm fed up with being treated like this. I'm shy, quiet, introverted, patient, and sensitive. I don't have the best apperance or much money.

Answer 1

life is all about the way you present yourself. first off saying you dont have the best appearance is a mistake. you need to be confident and be proud of how you look. and people wont know about your money situation unless you tell them. start acting confident and only focus on positives. when you talk to people take control on a convo and be confident pointing out positives in yourself and the situation. nobody wants to talk to someone who is always negative.  

Answer 2

I think the best thing would be to get a video game, an mmorpg. It will help you work on social skills and, unlike what other people may tell you, you can make great friends on there. Something like CIty Of Heroes. Its cheap (relatively) and a great way to get rid of stress. Otherwise, work out. Working out is the best way to cope with anger or stress, plus it will build self confidence and self esteem (also work on appearnace). Let me know how this works for you. [e-mail]

Answer 3

Some people are mean.  There is nothing wrong with how you are.  Actually almost everything you mentioned is a good thing-I think.  I was always told that I was shy growing up, but once I moved out of my parents house I noticed that I wasn't.  I just always thought that I was suppose to be that way.  

Do you have any family like brothers, sisters, cousins, parents near by.  You could try to hang out with them.

Answer 4

I was just like that not too long ago. What happened to me was a friend invited me to a party where none of my other friends would be, so I was forced out of my comfort zone into a group of kids that actually really liked me. And now, I've branched out, and I have a boyfriend and a new best friend, and have left in the dust those who treated me badly. What I suggest is joining a club, a book club, a cat club, a school club, anything, that you know people you know are not in, and just be yourself. Try really hard to forget what they're going to say. What's the worst that could happen? If anything, you can just quit the club. So just give socializing a chance, and I promise you, you'll have some friends soon.