Why does this scorpio man behave this way?

Question

Ive been knowing a scorpio man for a little over a year now and I don't understand him at all. He has taken me to meet his mother and best friends. He showed me all of his childhood accomplishments/pics. He's taken me to where he lives and has shown me where he works etc. When we are together (we live 2.5 hrs apart) everything is good. He talks about being together and having kids. He kisses me and doesn't keep his hands off of me the whole time. He takes me out etc. etc. When I leave, he acts completely different. He doesn't call me or respond to my calls often. When I get mad and tell him about himself (with vulgar language), he sends me sweet messages as if nothing happened. When I tell him that I'm mad at him and don't want to talk, he asks me why. He knows he's ignoring me, but why is he doing this? What does this mean?

Answer 1

You are annoying him lol

He probably just wants to still keep his freedom outside of your relationship

or,

he wants to keep the relationship going but is getting emotionally hurt, paranoid when he thinks bad of the slightest change (which is not typical scorpio man behavior)

so I'd say the first choice is about right. He wants his freedom and to be himself, not always with you.

Answer 2

Ok girls, the more you try to talk (*****) at your Scorpio the more he knows he got you where he wants you.  Scorps are known to test the ones they love.  Scorpio's are so loving except when they are hurt or scared of something.  Maybe the fact that y'all are so far apart is scaring him that you may stray, that he pulls himself away to see if you'll come closer.  It will make him feel better that you'll spend your time worrying about him until you see him again.  You want him to change?  Then don't call him anymore... the next time he calls or text, don't respond right away... and don't act hurt.... I know it hurts...but just PRETEND.  Then it will get him to worry, and then he will in fact start showing his tender side just so he won't lose you.

Answer 3

sorry but astrology apart, it sounds he's not too interested in the relationship.

astrology wise ,

i had a scorpio friend who would do that do - she would be calm and act like nothing happened even when I was really upset by her behaviour . She would just ignore what i was saying/complaining about and sometimes she would even joke about it even though i was wild. Eventually the whole thing got too much for me and the relationship broke. i dont know why they do that- maybe other people's emotions dont mean much to them. That or else they dont want to admit they are affected and they want to act cool. In any case i realised that being the best/ always right was very important to this person.

They dont explain their actions, they just act weird and people are supposed to cope with that. But I dont deny there were times when she was verry verry caring and understaning and the best friend possible.

THO in the end after the relationship had ended this person expressed profound regret/unhappiness that I had gone away. couldnt figure it out.

(sorry for the rambling, but had to explain everything)

you may find the complexity too much in such relationships, but if you can deal with it and if you think its worth it, you could stay on. You need to decide.

Answer 4

Oh my GOD! This is exactly like my relationship. When we are together it's magic. When we are apart he's distant, cold etc....he says he's busy with work, yet I can't understand why you wouldn't want to spend time with someone you 'supposedly' love. I really don't know what's going on except to say...it's happening with all scorps. I don't know if it's their need for independence...or if they truly do not care/have the same feelings for us as we do for them. I just don't know.

And...I also get upset with him when he's like that...but he acts like nothings is wrong! It's just very weird....

Talking to them doesn't help either, because they just keep their feelings and thoughts locked away.