Why doesn't CPS do anything to parents of next door child not smiling ?

Question

Why doesn't CPS do anything to parents of next door child not smiling ?

Answer 1

A child not smiling all the time isn't grounds for calling CPS. She has to be showing evidence of abuse(dirty clothing, bruises, etc.).

Answer 2

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!  PEOPLE LIKE YOU MAKE ME SICK!!! You have no idea what is going on in that kids life and it's none of your beeswax.  If you SEE something SAY something...otherwise keep to yourself!!

Answer 3

why is the child not smiling? cps has to have something to go on like some type of abuse

Answer 4

Have you tried calling the police ?

Answer 5

OMG! Some people are so clueless! Well Mrs. Brady it should be a crime. Like that horrible football that bruised and caused Marsha's nose to swell. It should have been publicly flatten and the school football field named in Marsha's honor.

Answer 6

Just because the child doesn't smile, doesn't mean it's being abused. Mind your own business, not everyone can be happy all the time. If you see bruises, or something suspicious like that, THEN call CPS.

Answer 7

First off your profile picture is great made me reminisce about watching the show as a kid.   Secondly, as others have said smiling isn't the best reason to give them a call as people can't be happy every day. It's just not normal. Here is some information you can use to help you out.

There are physical and behavioral signs that may suggest that child abuse is taking place.

Physical signs of abuse may include:

    * Bruises, especially those in different stages of healing.

    * Unexplained burns.

    * Bruises in the shape of an object, such as fingers, a ring, or a belt buckle.

    * Black eyes.

    * Broken bones.

    * Injuries after an absence from school or day care.

    * Vaginal or rectal bleeding, pain, itching, swelling or discharge.

    * Difficulty with bowel movements, urinating or swallowing.

    * Complaints of stomach or headaches.

    * Sexually transmitted diseases.

    * Vaginal infections.

    * Frozen stare or dazed appearance.

    * Neglected medical or dental care.

    * Dirty clothes or inappropriate clothing for the season.

    * Difficulty in walking or sitting.

    * Frequent attempts to run away.

    * Promiscuity or prostitution.

Behavioral signs of child abuse include:

    * Low self esteem.

    * Flinching away or ducking from motion or people moving towards them.

    * Eating disorders or loss of appetite.

    * Self mutilation such as "cutting," biting oneself or pulling out hair.

    * Unusual habits like rocking, sucking cloth.

    * Extreme changes in behavioral patterns.

    * Poor interpersonal relationships or a lack of self-confidence.

    * Clinginess, withdrawal or aggressiveness.

    * Regressing to infantile behavior such as bedwetting, thumb sucking or excessive crying.

    * Recurrent nightmares, disturbed sleep patterns, or a sudden fear of the dark.

    * Talking about having a secret.

    * Unexplained fear of a particular person.

    * Unusual knowledge of sexual matters.

    * Acting much younger or older than chronological age.

    * Frequent lying, or a fall in grades at school.

    * Depression.

It is important to remember that some of these symptoms of child abuse can be normal manifestations of play and activity. Other symptoms could be the result of a traumatic event that is not necessarily abuse, like divorce, or are signs of a physical disease such as depression. Still others are definitely "red flag" symptoms of abuse.

If any of the above physical signs appear, get medical help immediately. Talk frankly with the doctor and share your concerns about possible abuse. Discuss your medical and legal options. If there is physical proof of abuse, get a doctor's report in writing.

Any of the above behavioral signs are cause for concern to a good parent, teacher, or caregiver. A good first move is to open and nurture trusting lines of communication. Increase the time spent with the child, and increase the attention given to the child. Show more interest in their lives, and ask more questions. Assure them of your unqualified love and support, and make sure they know that you want them to feel happy and confident. Make sure they know that no matter what has happened, you will always love them.

Increase your contact with their teachers, counselors, and peers. Find out more about their activities, the people they spend time with, and the families of their friends.

If you suspect abuse, chances are you have a suspicion of who the perpetrator is. Call your local Child Abuse or Crisis Center and talk to an advocate about your concerns of abuse. Their advice can be invaluable.

Answer 8

Man, I would be in BIG trouble if it were cause for CPS to come for non-smiling children.  I have 4 so there are plenty of days that there may be some frowns.   But I do wonder if you have a good cause for this or are you just very compassionate about happy kids?

Answer 9

as a cps worker, trust me when i tell you there are things far more important and serious going on, with little man power to correct any of it. furthermore if cps workers made a decent salary, perhaps there would be some around for every bump, knick, bruise (and even those children who "just aren't smiling).

Answer 10

u are really pathetic and its so ouvious u dont have any kids, otherwise u wudnt be posting absoloute rubbish here!! children do not smile all the time , i know i have children and they only smile when they are having fun !!  go get a life and stop trying to get innocent families into problems!!!

Answer 11

Quit ranting and get a life. I didn't smile everyday and I was not abused. My fiance had severe depressions when she was young and she wasn't abused. Get over yourself!

Answer 12

Not smiling isn't a sign of abuse. Keep your eyes and ears open for anything you might see or hear coming from next door. There could be a lot of factors as to why the child doesn't smile..just got in trouble/tired/doesn't like ppl (my 2 year old isn't a ppl person).. not feeling well/bored etc. I have no idea what the child's age is as you didnt post that..but just keep on alert as to what is goin on.