Why doesn't he call/text more often?

Question

We met online 5 months ago and emailed each other for 2 months before meeting. I'd get an email every 2nd or 3rd day. Sometimes he sent an email just to say Hello. He'd tell me about himself, what he was doing, etc. We've had 3 very good dates (him being a total gentleman, loads of eye contact, compliments, laughing, but no s*x) He only kissed me on the cheeks to say Hi and Bye.

But ever since we met he rarely emails or calls, unless I initiate contact. Everytime I call/email (usually after 10 days if I don't hear from him) he is happy to hear from me and responds very quickly to emails/texts. He's always saying he's looking forward to seeing me again. He does initiate contact when he wants to see me, but there are no emails/texts inbetween.... Sometimes for a couple of weeks. He does travel a lot at the moment but he did so at the beginning also.

If we have such a great time together why doesn't he make more of an effort???

Answer 1

he doesnt like u as much as u think, sorry to be bearer of bad news.

Answer 2

Cause we don't like to come off as clingy.  

Answer 3

It's truly wanting to not come off as clingy. The best thing is to talk to him and find out where things stand other wise you'll both linger in this zone of discomfort not knowing what to do until things spoil.