Why doesn't he get it??

Question

There's this guy at my school and I've know him for about a year now. Well, he's liked me ever since he first saw me at school. The problem is, he's rude to my friends, not real cute, and he always brags about how many girlfriends he's had. He even dated one of my best friends! I just want to yell at him cause he keeps calling me (i didn't give him my #) and texting me! My mom told me not to be rude though and to let him down gently, but that's not working. He thinks I like him!!!!!!!! OMG what in the world should I do! Oh, without being too rude.

Answer 1

Theres a few things you could do.

1) Say, "Hey ___, isn't there another girl you want to talk to?"

2) Do it the evil way.  Call him and start talking obsessively.  Talk fast and don't give him the time to speak.  Lol!  Talk about what you had to eat that day, how you did your hair and found split ends (oh no!) and anything else that will drive him crazy and want to get off the phone.  If he DOES manage to slip out a couple words, just leave an awkward moment of silence....then start talking again, ignoring what he just said.  Then the only thing he'll be trying to say is that he wants to get off the phone with you.

Answer 2

Hey, lots of us have been there! just tell him that you like him, but as a friend, and make sure he knows WHY. Tell him that you don't appreciate him being rude to your friends.  You don't have to be rude to tell him that though. As long as you don't tell him that you HATE him, or that you never want to see him, he shouldn't take it that hard! Good luck! Hope I helped! :D

Answer 3

who cares if your tell him how it is.tell him you dont like him.And one of the reasons is because he's  a jerk to your friends and hes not that cute. And tell him to stop calling you and texting you and tell him to leave you the h**l alone there's no way to get through to a boy unless you tell him the truth.

Answer 4

just tell him. no offence, but i do not like you, you are not my type. tell him you would appreciate it if he stopped phoning and texting you all the time aswell.

Answer 5

just text him or something saying:" back off, i don't know where you got the idea of me liking you cause it's not true so you need to learn to stop bugging me." it's easier to text it cause then you don't need to see his reaction and then that'll stop you from saying what you need.

or if that doesn't work..

act like a total snob and be rude to him until he backs off and leaves you alone.

:)good luck

Answer 6

like this " _____ listen i dont like u and never will we will never be together so u just need to back off  "

Answer 7

tell him "i dont like u, would u mind not calling and texting me all the time ur sorta wasting my minutes and texts for no reason sorry!"