Why doesn't my husband seem to care when I'm crying?

Question

Please help me guys... Why is my husband so cold when I am sad? Like if I'm crying in the bathroom he just ignores me and stays in the other room. He doesn't console me or anything but yet he loves me. I don't get it. He told me I need to be stronger. But even so! I've been through a lot in my life more than he ever has. I can't believe it. It hurts me so much and that makes me cry even more.

Answer 1

 My husband does the same, and I was searching some help in internet and found this site. I am so relieved that I am not alone. Yes, sometime I also feel like - he doesn't care because I cry a lot. But at-least he can talk nicely after I come back to him. He thinks, I am crying to get his attention.

Answer 2

 My husband does the same, and I was searching some help in internet and found this site. I am so relieved that I am not alone. Yes, sometime I also feel like - he doesn't care because I cry a lot. But at-least he can talk nicely after I come back to him. He thinks, I am crying to get his attention.