Why doesn't my husband treat me better when I am ill? Can I help him understand?

Question

I'm sick - vomiting and all that - so there's no question I am very ill. My husband was just yelling at me for all the things that aren't being done at home. Didn't ask how I was feeling today, if you could bring me something - none of that. He's always like that when I'm sick (not like it happens very often that I'm sick), like if he doesn't have a nurturing gene or something. If anything he seems meaner and more frustrated when I'm sick. Yesterday when I suggested I might need to go to the hospital, he started complaining that I take too many vitamins. What the ? I'm home alone right now and feeling like I need to get up and clean the house before he gets back. I am physically capable of doing so, I just feel I should rest as much as possible to get well enough to go to work tomorrow. BTW today is our wedding anniversary. :-\

Answer 1

how long have you been sick? have you taken any meds?  try and do as much as you can today, i know when im sick and baby it i feel lazy/sick. but once i get up and start moving i feel better  

Answer 2

He's a selfish son of a *****. Divorce his sorry ***.

Answer 3

some men are like that, some dont know how to be helpful... if you acted like that next time HE was sick, he might understand