Why doesn't my sister like me?

Question

I think she's jealous of me or she hates me. We don't get along at all; Me and my younger sister. When I ask her to do my hair,she doesn't want to do it, but she always does my other sister's hair. She calls me names; Like, I'm fat, I'm ugly, and so on. I can get along with my other sisters, but not her. I love all my sisters, but I hate the things that they do to me. I'm the different one in my family and I have common sense when it comes to certain things. Candice, my sister, is a hoe; She doesn't have respect for her body or herself. I don't hang out with her nor, my oldest sister; Many people think I'm the oldest because I act mature,I have respect for my body, and I have respect for myself. So many people call Cerria and Candice hoe's because of the things that do to their bodies. I have a good reputation and they don't; When it comes to their bodies. It sucks as sisters because we don't get along at all. Candice has a nasty attitude and I can't be around her at all; It's like you can't tell her nothing. What do I do in this situation?

Answer 1

ignore her and don't talk to her, if she wants to change she will

Answer 2

Ok,

You don't get along with your sisters, nor did I but that's the way sometimes it goes. Now we are truly sisters. Let time and faith be on your side. Don't think and worry about how your sisters behave or do. You worry about yourself. Yeah it does suck when no ones gets along, but sooner or later reality will kick in. Don't feel bad about being different, you are you and that is what is important.

Advice; Worry about you, ok. your sisters are ok and what ever they do they are old enough to do what they want and you have no control over this is ease your mind and go on with your life.

Good luck...

sisters

Answer 3

Sounds like you have issues with everyone, not just the younger. You ***** and trashtalk enough for all three of you.

Answer 4

Until i read your additional details, I thought you were 11 or 12          you must be a khn  hopefully you didn't use your sisters' real name.  if you did, you have no class.

Answer 5

If she has any compassion at all, she will respond to you if you tell her that you're hurt by what she says.

Or if telling her is hard, just show her that you're hurt.  Suddenly be quiet.  This makes people freak.  But you know your sister best, so do what you think would work.

Once she gets to like you a little more maybe you should tell her she ought to clean up her act.

Answer 6

She is probably jealous, as you say.  

But you sound pretty judgmental as well.

Maybe it's time to move out, you'll likely get a long much better after you've all grown up a bit.

Answer 7

I am the 2nd oldest of 4 sisters.  As we were growing up we went through several different phases.  When we were younger we all got along.  Then in our early teens I got along better with my younger sisters.  In my late teens & through my 30s I concentrated on learning who I was & doing what was right for me.  Sometimes my sisters didn't agree, but that was okay because I encouraged them to lead their own lives, also.  ( 2 of us had moved to a different city, so that helped, too.)

So, my advice to you is to let the 2 who get along & are living their lives along the same line continue to live together while you get a place of your own, or find someone who has your same values to share an apt. with.

As each of you matures & finds the true you that you are meant to be you will probably all learn to respect one another & your views, even if you don't agree with them.  Or, they could learn that the live they're leading is not the one they truly want.

Here's the thing - family doesn't listen to family about some things.  Instead, they need to learn on their own, via their own mis-steps, or see what happens to their friends, or listen to stories from their acquaintances.  I don't know why it works that way, it just does.

So, move along the path you have chosen, concentrate on your own life & let them lead theirs.  Eventually, you will all become friends again, even if it isn't until you're all in your 50s.

Answer 8

Oh, sounds like a tough one. Have you talked to your mom or dad about this? Do they realize how you three get along? Maybe just tell your sisters, straight up like this, "I need to talk to you both, just for a second, and then you can leave, okay?" And if they agree just be like, "I love you both, and I really want to have a great relationship with you both, I know we fight and everything, but just know, that I love you both and we're sisters, and we should get along better than we do now." And if they don't agree to speak with you, just go on anyways. They'll be forced to listen, as you seem mature. Good luck!!!! [=

Answer 9

My sister and I are very different , we argued a lot in our teens I think it's normal.  Just do your own thing with your own chosen friends.  I moved out early too and that helped.

When you get older there is more of a balance and you will have a relationship with them which you decide.  

There is no law saying sisters have to be best friends.

Answer 10

Try to accept them for who they are and find things is common with one another

I dont mean to offend you but it seem like the way you are talking about them right now you aren'y showing a lot of respect for them

But yeah some people just dont get a long but most of the time if you try hard you can make it work

Answer 11

Try to be nice to your sisters, even though they aren't nice to you. If they saw how you cared about them, maybe, they would want to be nice to you, too. I don't know how it work, but at least give it a try. You never know what will happen.

Answer 12

people have different personalities.