Why doesn't she talk to me?

Question

Last year in freshmen year at high school I started talking to a girl in the class. For the first half of the year I never said anything to her but then one day I just started talking to her. We ended up talking some more, IM'ing like every day sometimes for hours , texting and we were cool. But later on she got a boyfriend and one day I noticed she wasn't on my friends list on my myspace, She said he deleted a lot of guys on there and she re-added me but then during summer the talking stopped. I was deleted again but she never said another word to me. I send her messages saying "what happened" or " whats up" but nothing... From talking a lot in freshmen year, now in sophomore year the most reactions I get out of her now is just when we pass each other in the hall. Just smile at each other. Other than that she has ignored me for a while though.... I don't know If I did something wrong or said something. We used to be great friends but now nothing. what should I do?

Answer 1

it's her b.f,,..may be her b.f tell her no talking 2 guys,,..or may be she is scared of her b.f,,..

or she don't want 2 talk 2 u any more,,..(s0rry)

Answer 2

its her boyfriend, he is probably a jelous guy and doesnt like it when she talks to other guys especially since she is really close to you,

Answer 3

if i was in your shoes id try to talk to her in person. Say stuff more than hi and hello..make conversation like how are you followed by a you know i kinda miss talking you like we used to do last year..

then just keep bringin up the fun times you guys had and then ask her why she was ignoring you. She'll probbaly say she's not.. then will be quiet...

and then pop the question, is it your boyfriend?

try asking her if he was too controlling over her.. blah blah blah.. say what you think.. tell her, he shouldnt be like that and if you are really smooth and confident, give her a kiss. no not french, but a lil peck on the cheek since you guys are young and french kiss can wait in the bed.

then next thing you know, she's like an adult havin an affair!! :D

Answer 4

sounds like shes dumping u as a friend. sorry, thats painful i know. may be cause she has a bf now n really isnt concerned with ur feelings. i know girls who do that to female friends as well, forget them wen they get a bf. its very rude. sorry.

Answer 5

I think you should ask her why she wont talk to you, not just IM it.  If she tells her she feels wierd about hanging out with you, and her boyfriend, then try talking to her boyfriend about what happened, maybe he can straiten things out.