Why don't Hubbys/BF's get it that when they say?

Question

"Please lose the attitude" it only makes it worse?

Answer 1

That's right up there with " Is it that time of month?" LOL

Answer 2

There is nothing to "get". We don't care. It's just another way to tell you you are acting like a Bitc h.

Answer 3

That's like asking a guy "What're you thinking about?". It will only make things worse. :)

Answer 4

Are you on the rag or something, HHH?

Answer 5

they get it, but that pulsating vein in your forehead is tres, tres amusing

plus they get to laff at him dealing with his ticked off woman

Answer 6

Because guys don't think before they speak. And even if they do think, they don't think of how what they're about to say might affect us. Sigh.

Answer 7

Because you have attitude and we want you to lose it.  I suppose if you're being a ****** that we're supposed to smile and say "Okay honey, you're right" and then toss your salad?  Keep dreaming lady.

God forbid a man sticks up for himself.

Bye the way.. your butt looks great in those pants.

Answer 8

It only make it worse when you do have an attitude. In that case you should take their advice and lose the attitude.

Answer 9

Ummm because they are immature?

Answer 10

I just tell them, there's the door if you don't like it, they must like it cause they don't leave.  ever.

Answer 11

B/c he`s tired of the pointless nagging. After a while, you get "wife tone", at which point the male just says " whatever she says with that tone of voice, I don`t hear anymore". The brain just shuts down, and no more input when that tone is heard will be tolerated. It`s a form of conditioning over time. A woman on her monthly cycle just has such a way with words, that we retreat to the garage, golfing, watching sports or going out with the boys for a beer until the hormones have calmed down. Not to worry, we will love you just the same after your back to normal. Have we as men, accepted the following to be true? " Can`t live with them, can`t  live without them"? You be the judge.............

Answer 12

So what is the problem, I just do not see one.

Answer 13

It's their polite way of saying "Shut the f*** up!!". If you get an attitude about it, than that's your perception.  

Answer 14

At least he's asking nicely.

I guess the question is, why does asking our loved ones to relax a nd calm down make it worse? We don't want to be called names, we don't need snotty remarks, your attitude will make it worse for US too, and nothing will get accomplished and a fight wil take place.

asking this is a preventative measure.

Answer 15

B/c sometimes we do have attitudes. I believe my husband when he says  it b/c he's so nonchalant.

Answer 16

I know right, you'd think my ex would get it after the millionth time I said "Please don't talk to or sit in the same room with me. Thanks"

Answer 17

LOL yeah really. I tell my husband to quit with the attitude sometimes too though, I'm guilty. It only makes him madder.

Answer 18

i dont know but my husband says it to me all the time im like i dont have it one its not my fault im right and ur wrong.

Answer 19

lol who knows.  

Answer 20

Not sure, but it would help things immensely.

Answer 21

Well sometimes we should lose the attitude...What is it that he's doing to p**s you off so bad? I sometimes come home is a bad mood and start in on my honey and then think man I am being a Big time B*tch! So I take a moment to apologized and then we move on and the rest of the evening is lots better!  

Answer 22

Sorry.  Too busy looking at your azz in those tight red pants.  What was the question again?

Answer 23

Cause we like to pee you women off that way you leave us alone to do more important things like drinking beer and doing the other woman.