Why don't I feel attracted to boys?

Question

I don't feel attracted to boys(or girls) and when everyone is dating in highschool I really can't relate to them with that. I never ever saw anyone as a person I could date because I don't like anyone romantically. It's really a weird feeling, but besides that, I always seemed a little "off" or anomalous to people(weird body language,no eye contact,can't hold conversation,zones out,confused all the time, have a hard time reading facial expressions).

I only have 2 people at my school who I am "friends" with, and Im not sure if I said they were my friends that they would agree but they talk to me anyway even though I'm always a bit lost in our conversations. But I am intellectually advanced and I am a great artist and I love to fix computers. wtf is wrong with me?

I am in 9th grade and I am 14 years old

Answer 1

Well. I've been through the same things when I was in high school. but what you need to do is. Dress properly. You don't have to have a good dress to dress properly. try to be fresh. I mean when you sweat try to wash your face and try to be more fresh all the time. When you talk to someone lesion and talk or think before you speak. When you speak to someone, always look at their eyes and speak. Try practising how to laugh in front of your mirror. See how you speak to other in front of your mirror and correct yourself. Try these simple things and you will be the most attractive girl in high school. It's good that now we have all these yahoo answers etc. but when I was in high school, we didn't have these kind of services. And I myself went though hard time.

Answer 2

Attraction is a weird thing and difficult to discuss. It is finding a quality that provides pleasure and entices your attention towards whomever.  For example, you're attracted to computers because you find that you are good at fixing them and you're attracted to art because it's another one of your skills.  

Imply this knowledge to other people.  You haven't found that "quality" that attracts you to others and you may not for a long time.  One day you'll wake up and go to school and find someone who exhibits characteristics you find attractive, and it might not be this year nor years after, but once you do, you'll know what to look for in others.  

Good luck.  

Answer 3

Weird.... I'm the same way and the same age as you (but in 10th grade). I mean I LIKE guys, I suppose, But I just don't care for dating. Maybe It's just your personality? Or maybe your just shy? I know I am >_<

Answer 4

You're probably a little more advanced than your classmates.

Answer 5

Don't push yourself to feel attracted to anyone, it will happen at the right time.

Not everyone has those feelings, there are some people who are made not to want to be married...hey think about it, you can do everything you want to in life without having to think of another person all the time, that can be a plus!

But are you lonely? Or are you just thinking you are weird, because just because you are not totally the same as others, doesn't;t make you any less of a person, if they were jumping off a cliff, would you, is something my Mum used to say to me, it is alright to be different, it is just different, not anything else.

And please DO NOT IM the first answerer he seems creepy to me.

All the best with your future, and I hope some of what I wrote helps.

Mel