Why don't I like him anymore??

Question

I was head over heels over this guy last year(just met) but now, I just don't like him anymore. He used to be in only one class of mine last year and I barely saw him then.This year,he's in almost all of them and I recently found out that he likes me.Do I not like him anymore because of how everything is laid out for us now?(like we're all in the same classes,he likes me....)I just think I liked him because he was hard for me to get but now...it's like forbidden love.when you can finally have him,you dont cuz all the drama is gone.I do love drama too.Just listening to it not actually being in it though.My life is very boring.....

oh..and this year,a whole bunch of the ugly guys who would be more in my popularity level,like me!They are ugly!!!Why do they like me?!?!I'm way uglier then them!!!!

here a place you can look at my ugly face for free.i suggest to not go to it.

http://www.freewebs.com/eabpurple3/apps/photos/

I tried photobucket but it's hard to put it up all voer the net.I dont know how to make it public.

So yeah...there's my ugly face and I hope you live after you see it,if you want to at all..........

*sigh*

Back to the orginal question....why dont I like him anymore???

Answer 1

This is a tough question to answer since right now I used to be crushing hard on a guy friend, who now I don't really like. One reason is maybe he did something that you didn't like and that automatically turned you off, and therefore don't like him anymore.

Sometimes it just happens for no reason.

Answer 2

Your answer makes more sence than anything I could come up with lol so I think you answered your own question, who knows though, maybe things will work out with him, or someone else ??

Dont get down about how you look, because your cute, I wana pinch your cheeks! lol

......That actually sounded kind of creepy. haha

Answer 3

Forget about guys until you raise your self esteem. Join the drama club or something

Answer 4

You are goreous!!

i dunno why it happens but it does... maybe the feelings will come back in time :)

just let it go

Life is confusing :(

i hate it too

I know i didn't really help but know that you ARENT ALONE!!!!

and you aren't ugly :]

<3

XX

Answer 5

awww... sweety.. firstly u r not ugly.. n im not just saying that.. im someone that also struggles with confidence, i can look at myself in the mirror and go oh my god..im ugly!  my nose is big, i've got zits everywhere... so im telling u the truth, u r v pretty actually

In answer to your question, sometimes u can just grow used to someone being unobtainable to them and then suddenly, when they are there right in front of you its a big big shock and ur like... erm... he's not actually that nice anymore! Maybe u built up some kind of fantasy in ur head as to what this guy would be like as a boyfriend, and u've noticed that since u have been spending more time with him that he's not the person u first thought him to be...

its easy to have these crushes but to be honest, these guys never live up to ur expectations.. im guessing ur still young and i think u have some confidence issues to work through.

Someone once told me.. before u love other people u must learn to love yourself.... I always felt the ugly duckling at school.. but guess what? Now im 23, married and i have a 4 year old son.. sometimes the really pretty girls finish last and find they get more problems with guys than us normal 'next door' type girls as the guys they attract are just after s*x.... u dont want someone to use you.. so i would say, get used to urself, learn to live with how you are... every woman has something they hate about themselves and let me tell u i have more than one thing i would love to change.. but cosmetic surgery is just too expensive.. no one is perfect..

ur a pretty girl.. dont ignore the guys that are ugly but just be friendly with them.. dont knock their confidence just cuz ur's has a huge dent in it!

ok? if u need to talk then just email me.. i have a lot of wise words of advice and i can nearly always help you if u want any advice.

I live by a saying just recently..... if someone doesn't like me for who i am or what i look like then there is something wrong with them!