Why don't I like relationships?

Question

I don't like the idea of families... I hate when people are all girly... I don't want to date... Friends get on my nerves really easily so I don't like being with them a lot.. I'm 14 and most people my age like all of this stuff, I feel almost left out. =\

Answer 1

I would say that you should find some people you feel really comfortable with and spend time with them. But i would say you just need to loosen up and meet new people. Hope this helped.

Answer 2

Some people feel this way. I knew someone who had a so called  sociophobia, he didn't like being around people bcoz it made him uncomfortable, so he started joining clubs, doing social activities, and he took a job that required him to socialize with others. And he's the most talkative and social person i know now. You just have to try and involve yourself more with the world. Growing up is a learning process and an experience. Enjoy life and get to know a lot of people, and have fun :)

Answer 3

This sounds like Schizoid Pesonality Disorder. A google search will turn up any number of resources. If your school has a counselor, I would recommend going to him (or her) first. Hopefully, they will be able to point you int he right direction. Hang in there...it gets better, I promise.

Answer 4

Find people you really like and hang out with them.. If this doesn't help then just try to be positive and see what you do like about your friends. And it's also probably just your personality.