Why don't guys my age like me?

Question

Okay, so I've always gotten along better with boys and people older than me - so I have an easy time talking to older guys. Older guys always like talk to me, look at me, and like "hit on me" - but guys my age don't. I have an hourglass figure, sort of big b***s, and wide hips. Guys older than me always (as my cousin says) "scopes me out" - but guys my age always go after these 4 foot tall, 70 pound girls... I just don't understand why guys my age don't like me but older guys do. My parents won't let me date older guys, so that's not an option. What do I do? What's wrong with me or these guys? Help!

Answer 1

Guys youre age havent matured yet..  they think that tiny little skeletons are what's attractive  (I dont know why, as they dont even have b***s!).

A more mature guy prefers the look of a mature woman..  one who has b***s and a healthy body shape.  (Deep down, our primal instincts tell us to seek a mate who will be able to bear healthy children.. thats why b***s and wide hips are attractive)

I wouldnt want to date a guy who's only concerned about my appearance anyways.

Answer 2

You're probably more matured then people your age.

and you probably look older too.

Answer 3

they think they dont have a chance with u

Answer 4

Well, it's mostly about the personality, good look is just an addition...

just make sure you don't go out with a pedophile.

I have similar problem, but I don't like guys my age too much because they are rather immature and behave like iiiiidiots (the ones I know), and ones that I'm good friends with (my age) are either g*y or have girlfriends (I don't mind, because I only like them as a friend anyway :D)

Answer 5

Guy's your age haven't matured yet. (Seeing as they're going for four foot tall - seventy pound girls I'd hope your in late elementary or maybe it's that they like the anorexic look...)

Answer 6

It sounds like the guys your age may be inhibited by you, and may be afraid that if they "go out with the tall girl," they may get teased. So yeah, there is immaturity, and there is the fact that at school you are dealing with a very small social structure. Once you get beyond the school walls, you will find a more open mindset, at least to some extent. There will be more people available and they won't have the peer pressures of the school environment. I would think that in that light, you should be able to find guys your age that are interested in you, but you need to find a way to locate them, as they may be nearby, but just not at your school. Try to go to all the school events that go to the other schools! Just one suggestion...  

Answer 7

because guys your age probably look at you like youre better then them. you sound real mature and grown up when you need to be. they probably just cant handle someone who isn't as immature then them.