Why don't i even care?

Question

i mean..i'm not even mad but i want to be i want my virginity to mean something to me and my uncle raped me alst christmas but for some reason im just not mad at him the only reason i'm mad is cause he denies it and sayse that i came into his room and locked the door and climbed on top of him and my whole family thinks im a liar

but why am i not mad at what he did (i was 12 btw)

Answer 1

stay away from your uncle if he did that. don't trust him if u didn't want him to. that's wrong. he could go to jail for that. i would just stay away from him if i were you.

Answer 2

get away from  your uncle.

tell  your parents and c a consuler you probally have alot of issues

Answer 3

First off, tell your parents, "Do you really think I wanted to f*ck my own uncle when I was twelve? I would never do something like that, and if you really loved me, then you would believe me and not the S.O.B! How could a twelve year old over power an adult? There's a thing called rape out there."

Next, I'd call a child protective program or something. Why would you want to be near that b*stard of an uncle?

Answer 4

I'm really sorry..and this is normal for young people. When your older it might hit harder. But kids are resilient. You dont have to be strong forever hunny. Good luck!

Love Haleigh<3

Answer 5

And you haven't called the cops, why?  Who gives a f*ck if he's family.  Rape is rape, and rape is illegal.  Throw his *ss in the slammer.

Answer 6

Sweetheart...you need to talk to someone. Is there a school counselor or some sort of clinic you could go to? Of course you're mad...it's just coming out in a different way. You have every right to be mad. Even if your family believes that you pursued him....he was the adult...he should have said no. I don't believe that for one minute though and I'm sure this wasn't the first time he's done something like this. You could look up the number in your area for Child Protective Services and call them...they would come and investigate and most likey remove you from the home. None of this is normal sweetie...but you need someone to help you find your way out of this mess...don't try to go it alone. You can get through anything with just a little help. God bless you, I'll pray that God keeps you safe.

Answer 7

Your family is seriously dense.. How could they believe that a 12 year old girl overpowered a grown man?

Answer 8

You do care, but the cutting has subconciously become your outlet. Your family will come to see the truth but until then maybe you should talk to someone you can trust...a friend, a school counselor.  No matter what your family is saying what you're unle did was 100% wrong.. It is not your fault and no one deserves to be raped.