Why don't men I'm attracted to approach me?

Question

People tell me all the time how beautiful I am. I get numbers like water coming out of a faucet. I am very feminine, dress classy and s**y. I don't understand why men I'm attracted to stare at me and the ones I want to stay away keep coming.

Answer 1

Post a recent picture and I'll give you a more honest answer. It might be that they don't think you are approachable or maybe those types of men don't readily approach women. It could be anything.

Answer 2

Get off your butt and approach the people you're interested in.

Nobody's psychic and nobody likes rejection. Thus people don't take a shot.

Answer 3

You said you are "very feminine, dress classy and s**y". You say you get numbers all the time, but not from the guys you desire.

1 the guys that give you their numbers, do they look feminine and dress classy and s**y?

2 the ones you'd like to hit on you, but don't, do they look feminine and dress classy and s**y?

3 Maybe you have the reverse problem I have. I don't look feminine, I dress appropriately when I go out and don't think I look s**y; however, the ones that call me s**y are all female.

The guys I wish would hit me up are good lookers or have something in their persona I like, but they don't.

The guys that do often are the feminine, classy dressed ones, s**y or otherwise.

Nothing against you or the feminine guys, but I prefer a non feminine guy; not a body builder or anathletee, but a guy similar to me in appearance. Maybe the ones you wish would hit you up are like me.

4 Maybe you're too classy and s**y and the guys that you'd like hit on you may believe they're out of your league, or maybe you'd be too expensive for a date.

5 Or maybe you just have to approached them, maybe they're shy and afraid of rejection.

Answer 4

Maybe they are slightly intimidated because you obviously have high standards, and reflect that in your attitude and the way you present yourself. Go up to them first and show them that you are approachable...there shouldn't be a problem from there.

Answer 5

Because you don't want them to man. You're not confident in yourself and your abilities. When you gain that confidence you'll find yourself and others will take notice and see you as more than what you even see yourself as. And perhaps you need to take a more active role and go get who you want rather than just hoping they will make a move. That's what I do. **** this waiting ****, you wait and you'll be waiting for years! So just don't think twice and ask them out or whatever but do so with confidence. Whats the worst that'll happen? You'll get rejected? Ok so what you move on and go find someone that's worth your time!  

Answer 6

They feel intimidated, they don't want you to not like them.

I like this boy, but I'm a little afraid of approaching him because I feel like he won't like me, so I skip it.  It was one of my most regrettable moments because it turned out that he liked me too.

If you like them, just make small talk with them, then it will escalate to acquaintances, the friends, then maybe even boyfriends.  everything starts with those famous first words.

Answer 7

because they are probably intimidated by you. why don't you approach them, they're probably thinking the same thing about you...