Why don't people like me?

Question

I don't know why all the great looking girls in my school don't like me? First off ill give you some background info...

I'm 16 in a month... I shower daily (Great hygene), Dress well, don't smell, and look quite well, im not a poser, i stick up for the little person, and am just nice.

My flaws (I think):

I think i have large thigh's lol (i don't when i look in a mirror... but i think i do), i can be self concious at times, im really flinchy (Like 10ft away and i flinch), im not the strongest guy out there, and i think i sweat through my arm pits alot... (this is really concious about! it's not too noticable cuz i wear hoodies alot)

I used to be homeschooled... and my friend used to make fun of me about that all last year... there good friends though. Most of my friends smoke dope... and EVERYBODY drinks in my town... even the 10 year olds... You see... i don't drink... and thats how alot of people meet each other in my town. Through party's and the what not, and i just don't do that stuff no matter how much i want to. Im depressed sometimes, because i see those guys that just play video games all day, and dont have much social lives but within thier tight nit group of gamers, and i ask myself daily... "How can you go through highschool knowning that your not going to have a girlfriend, or even really communicate with girls?" and for me thats a real social aspect that i really miss out on... i just dont see what they see wrong with me? I'd like to have a girlfriend, and im not kiding about that... I'd like to take her out places, and just be with her. But i don't get to experience that... and i don't want to ask my friends why they think the girls don't like me because i'm scared that something might get out about my fears on this issue... but yeah... i may have gone off topic a little bit with this... but anyways. thanks for your response guys... if i get any.

Answer 1

they dont know you  

Answer 2

get comfortable in who you are and wait on some friends that have the same  interest as you I'm different and was when i was growing up love the skin your in

Answer 3

hey well i think i can understand U.. im a guy So yeah Duh!!

and well Ummm they Dont know u because you dont let your self out there... Dont do what they do that is wrong just be your seld and dont let anyone put u down.. Some how you seem tall and have problems with your weight and your not that fat.. thats my opinion.. and well i can say in high school the Best thing to be Is ur self.. thats like The number one thing about High school.. if u try to be someone else it just wont Work OUT at all

Answer 4

I don't really have an answer but I feel for ya.  :-/           >BIG HUG<  High school is really hard on alot of people...I can tell you it was really hard for me finding a boyfriend in high school, or at least a guy that likes me.  ITS SO MUCH BETTER after high school.  my h.s. was really small and it was just horrible, any luck I had with boys, it was outside of school.  Try that.  I think that would work for you more because alot of kids are too busy worrying about what other people think than thinking about what's best for them or what might be good for them.  And no one really knows who they are in high school anyways.  So...yea...  good luck sweetie!  ;-)     >BIG HUG<