Why don't women consult the father of the baby before they kill it by way of abortion?

Question

selfish much ?

Answer 1

I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant and he beat me up... There are probably as many reasons not to tell a boyfriend that your having an abortion as there are women getting abortions.

End of the day- her body, her uterus: if you want a say in whether or not she gets an abortion have that discussion BEFORE having s*x. (Its called being responsible...)

Answer 2

Legally, they do not have to, nor should they. Ethically, well you decide. I think it would be considerate for a woman to inform the man who impregnated her that she is pregnant and that she plans to abort in some cases, but the problem with your question, troll, is that the wording implies that ALL women who abort do so without any consideration of the man who impregnated her feelings, and that this is a frequent and rampant problem. It is actually the opposite. The number one cause of death for pregnant women is murder by the man who impregnated her. It is far more often the case that the woman wants to keep the baby, but the man who impregnated her wants her to abort.

When my friend informed a guy she had been dating that she had become pregnant and was weighing the option of abortion, he proceeded to call her a w***e and told her if she did not abort that she would "be sorry."

Answer 3

That is something I never understood.  If a man wants the child, but the mother  aborts it he has no rights...maybe we would have less abortions if fathers were given a say.  (I am pro choice)

Answer 4

Did it ever occur to you that most of them do?  And the fathers are just as supportive of the abortion as they are?

Your promotion of all unwed fathers as noble lovers of their illegitimate children is ridiculous and wrong.

Why didn't those fathers consult with the mothers about birth control, disease prevention, and the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy before they dropped their drawers?  

ETA:  really?  Tough.  I'll try to live with your disapproval.  But I'm also right.   Boneheads don't seem to comprehend that abortion is not a decision made lightly, and not necessarily alone.  For every d*ckhead who didn't think ahead of time and now wants the baby, how many don't care?

Answer 5

Tracey: Except you dont become attached to my vasectomy. You aren't devastated when i get my vasectomy.

Sorry, it is REALLY not the same thing hun.

Michelle: Fair enough, your body, i think you should have more pull than i do, but really, i have zero rights, ZERO? Can't we have something? Anything?

We dont even have the right to be informed if you have an abortion.

Its my kid too, you know.

RoVale: Really, your saying that the majority of men who get women pregnant are murderers with no conscience?

That is no argument. It is not right to strip one party of any rights concerning something that affects them deeply simply to safeguard a tiny minority of another party.

I could be killed tripping while going out my front door, what are the odds of that happening?

Once again, that is no argument.

Answer 6

Because she could be killed if she consults him. Are you aware that homicide is a leading cause of death for pregnant women?

Answer 7

because by law they dont have to.

which is unarguably bull$67t.

Answer 8

Because it's the woman's body; she can do whatever she wants with it Unless the man plans on physically giving birth to the child, he doesn't need to be consulted.

Answer 9

No, it's not selfish. Whether you think so or not it ultimately is HER choice. It's her uterus and it's HER body and so if she doesn't want to keep it then it's her decision. I mean yes, she should have at least TOLD you but i think it's selfish that you don't realize that she's the one who should have the decision.

Answer 10

Most do, I think you are forgetting that a lot of people men and women are pro choice and in many cases its the couples decision.  

Answer 11

Because the "father" of the baby hit the road when the mother said "I'm pregnant."

That's why.

Answer 12

I am not sure I could never abort a baby in fact we are trying to have baby #2 soon , Even in my single wilder days I coudnt to this and I KNOW I wouldnt ahve had any support

Hey wish me luck on a baby soon