Why don't you really want to know how moms feel about you taking their babies?

Question

why wouldn't that be something that you would want to know? if someone took the baby from you after you adopted it how would you feel about that? just answer this question don't say oh well they won't or they will have no reason to do that, how are you going to feel after you are bonded with it? for most women nine months of physical pregnancy bonds them with that baby most of the time and stop trying to deny it or say it is what is best for the baby it isn't!

Answer 1

you said "adoption isn't best for a baby" ..???

uh, in most cases ..... IT IS!!

you need some punctuation in there, i dont know what you're asking.

I just read your other answers.  wow!

You really think (for example) that a drug addicted mom would take care of her baby better than a woman who WANTS a child?  Not every woman can have one of their own, ya know.

And some women give their babies up for adoption WILLINGLY.

What about parent who passed away in some accident?  Where does their baby go?

You need to stop and think about the babies for once.

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Answer 2

I do want to know and do care about that. I would love to do semi open or open adoption so I can know the birth parents and also let them in the life of the precious baby they gave up for me.

Answer 3

an infant or new born given into an adoption is done by the birth mother's choice. Hard yes, but she feels its best. Children being taken is a whole other thing. Hard yes but you make choices and you have to live with the consequences

Answer 4

so what's your question??

Answer 5

Adoption is usually done for the sake of the child.....I know in my case I gave up a baby because I didn't have my own home and my nuclear family were a bunch of misfits and I wanted the best for the baby...I knew when I found out that I was pregnant that this baby was going to go to a loving family without all the drama. Did this make it hard for me? You bet it did......I cried plenty because I wanted to keep my baby but I had to think of the baby and do what was best for the baby and not myself.....my sister (younger than myself) was pregnant at the same time she kept her baby and it's not a good life for them...

Answer 6

I never took anyones baby.  So, don't accuse me of it.

Answer 7

You obviously have some bad experience and negative issues about adoption. Get some counseling.

Answer 8

I gave you the thumbs down in that thread. You are ignorant- women willingly give children up for adoption or children are taken because the mother is found unfit.

If I were somehow unable to care for my children I would be greatful that someone would open their hearts and home to them.

You are very ignorant about adoption and I suspect you think you are funny.

Answer 9

You need help.

Answer 10

Report these types of questions PLEASE - we have much better things to do on this board!

Answer 11

Super-Kitten... I see you're passionate about this subject.

My wife and I are adopting... haven't been able to have a child and really want to provide a loving home to a child. We've had a couple fall through on us... It's been tough. But I know that at least in one circumstance, it was right for the girl to keep the baby. She had strong family support and the means to provide for her baby.

So, I'm willing to say that sometimes adoption takes place when maybe it shouldn't. That's a problem.

But there are other circumstances that make adoption the best choice... for the child and the birth-mother.

A few examples?... A mother just doesn't want her baby.

The child is abused by parents.

The child will not be provided for physically, emotionally...

If a woman hates the sight of her child and won't take care of him/her, then is adoption acceptable?

http://www.utexas.edu/research/cswr/proj...

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/05/2...

http://www.achildshope.com/birthmother_s...

Answer 12

Nobody holds a gun to a woman's head and forces her to relinquish her child.  You're way out of line telling people they 'stole' babies.  Don't blame others for your own narrow minded, ignorant and uneducated view of things, nor for any bitterness or resentment you may be holding after a bad choice you made.

Get a life.