Why dont me and my mom get along?

Question

everyday me and my mom fight she just dont understand after my summer program i am tored and she just makes me do more and more stuff and if i dont do it in time she hits me its hard because she dosnt do it to my other sister i have no one to tlk to about this some day i just hate it so much that i try to cut myself or anything when i try to talk to my mom about stuff like this she yells more just a mintue ago we were fighting and she hit me with a shoe i so use to getting hit it dosnt even hurt any more she always blames stuff on me and never believe me i already know she think that my other sister would be better in life she think i follow my friiend and i will never be anything in my life it hurt knowing that me and my mom cant go a week without fighting she yells for no reason she dosnt bother my other sister as much as she bothers me me and my sister dosnt even get alone so really im alone i never told anyone the stuff i do and how me and my mom dont get alone i dont no wat to do

Answer 1

first of all i'm sorry that your disagreements turn into physical violence. you should turn to someone you trust, such as a grandmother or aunt, or your sunday school teacher, anyone else that can intercede on your behalf and make sure that you and your sister are safe.  there are also 1-800 numbers you can call or places on the web you can turn to 24/7.  but please tell someone before the abuse gets out of control.