Why dont we see more young men go for older women like young girls date older men ?

Question

Why don't we see more men go with older women ? I think because women wont accept them because of lack of financial security and lack of sexual experience. Why dont older guy think the same with these barely legal girls? There are mature women and men of all ages. So I think MOST of these relationship are usually not about maturity it's more about s*x and money . Why do men ignore their partner income and sexual experience and why is it so important to women ? By the way not all men and women think like this just MOST.

Answer 1

hmm... the oldest I would go is 10 years - me being 17 turning 18 that's 27/28.  My friends think I'm gross for even going to that age. But it's more than s*x and money.. I don't even know if it's that. In my family my dad was 14 years older than my mother, he was also 43 when I was born. So I think that has a lot to do with my standard.

But onto the young men dating older women... I don't get that either O_o hmm... Actually my mother being 43 at the time had relations with guys 18 years old so.. I dunno.. maybe women should start being as whorey as my mother. haha nahh but I think there's just a lot of stigma. But it could also be due to the fact women mature quicker than men, I mean nobody is mature at our age but yeah I dunno..

Answer 2

As far as I remember my uncle married a woman who was 13 years older than him.

Edit@Ms. Happy: In response to your post "True or False? Why? What can be done about it?"  I guess she'll just have to buck up, now won't she?  Yes, I think so. It won't do her any good to whine and waste her time; lives are depending on her.  

And the matter that you blocked me is no matter at all.  I'm not going to give you an "oh the poor woman answer."  That's not facing reality.

Answer 3

Most men have much time with the mother in their young age so why need another mother.  On the other hand, girls mostly lack father's love in their younger age and will be longing for older men to act and give father's love to them.  I think it is the main reason.

Answer 4

You mean to ask "Why don't we see more mature women involved in relationships with young men?" Because "older women" (as you call us)  want someone with whom we can talk, and enjoy a mutually satisfying, well-rounded relationship.  Let's face it, kids are... kids!  What would a middle-aged woman see in a guy half her age?  Q:What do the two of them have in common?  A:NOT MUCH.  I know these relationships DO happen sometimes, but geeze, get real... all I can think is "how boring!".

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Answer 5

You know what they say? Men are success objects and Women are s*x objects.

Answer 6

Eh, I like younger guys. They're less full of BS I've come to experience.... they've had less time to be damaged by other relationships, less time to learn how to manipulate and deceive...

Answer 7

i have only ever been out with my age and under. i dont fancy guys above early 20s

Answer 8

because young women do it for money (money has no sell by date)

men go for looks, and women peak at 25-35 then it's downhill from there.

Answer 9

... most men want there women to look a certain way but women just want a guy that can prove her with securities that most young guys cant provide for a women like a older man can and most older women cant be as pretty as a younger women... idk its just the way society works..  

Answer 10

I have to agree with dog and Jasmine

Answer 11

-because-... we are equals and theres no difference between the way men and woman think.

Answer 12

Its not most just some and I think the younger men are looking for a mother, while many younger women are looking for father figures. It help the older of the pair to recapture some of their youth.