Why dosen't my boyfriend of 2 months want to have s*x with me?

Question

We do have it but hardly ever and only when he wants to. I am a single mom of two kids and I long for intimacy.Hes smart, funny, and hardworking. But alot about himself in a sense. THeres also a big culture difference.Hes African and me american white.So we have big communication (understanding problems) Should I give him some time.

Answer 1

just wait dnt rush things

Answer 2

That's a fairly vague question, but i'll answer with what i'm given.

The reason he doesn't want to have s*x with you could be a variety of possibilities, and for those i'll give you a short list:

-He's responsible (In this case, consider yourself lucky)

-He's shy (Not bad either)

-He wants to wait until marriage

-He's simply not ready

It goes on and on, however I can tell you I don't know what the real answer is, because i'm not your boyfriend of 2 months.  In all honesty though you need to talk about it with him if he's showing signs of little to no interest in intercourse.  Have a talk about it, I know it's easier said than done but how else will you find out?  Play 21 questions?

Besides, the best relationships occur when you and your partner are open....and honest, trust me on that one.

Answer 3

Possibly, he has high blood pressure and is on bp meds that decreased his libido.  Perhaps he is taking a street drugs that has diminished his libido.  Perhaps he does not see the challenge.  He has already made you a conquest and it is too easy.  Perhaps you should ask him what's up?  Are you sure he is just seeing you exclusively?  He is going to have to communicate, eventually.  So, ask.

Answer 4

No s*x yet from 2 months old boyfriend? Hahahahaaaaa. I'm assuming both of you are fond of each other. And believe it or not, some guys are still old fashined in that respect and want to save themselves for the right girl. If you are just into s*x, it's easy to pick up guys from the bars because that's all they are after. But if you are looking for a long term relationship, it looks like you've got a good catch because he appears to have good old fashion values and reserving sexual intimacy for that special someone. Think about it, do you want to keep someone if you know he sleeps around with other girls after jusy 2 months into their relationship?   Good luck to both of you.

Answer 5

he has to tell you, if not...love is honesty all the way.

Answer 6

In all honesty? He's either afraid of getting you pregnant and being forced to raise 3 kids, or he's afraid of commiting to you because he hopes someone better will come along.  

Answer 7

Maybe he's doin' the deed with someone else.... Sorry.. But it's possible!

Answer 8

might be he don hav trust in u.

having s*x is not so easy my dear.

u hav to make sure that he has total belief in u.

untill and unless ur able to do so he will never hav a night in bed with u.

So try to express ur deep love to him and convince him that u like him most in the world.

i challenge that he will hav saex with u in next 2 months if u follow my instructions honestly.

Answer 9

maybe he doesnt know ur in the mood for it?

now aswer my question 2 pls

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 10

It's kind of messed up for you to have two kids and be sleeping with another man. Depending on how old your kids are, you might be giving them mixed emotions. And uhh, two months is a short amount of time honey.

Answer 11

you have to sit with him and talk about the situation, and if there anything wrong going with him............

Maybe he is seeing someone else, no body knows....... so you have to talk with him.....