Why everyone else but me?

Question

On the surface it appear I get on very well with a lass from work.

Over the last month things are gotten a little weird.

First we were very chatty, she even started to be a little flirty with me. nothing overt but the usual stroking my arm or touching my shoulder.

Then as if from nowhere, she went from talking to almost finding any reason to avoid standing on the same piece of carpet.

A few days later she send me an email asking if she had done something wrong? which was a supprise.

I said she had not done anything wrong and had no reason to say sorry, etc etc.

Then it all went cold again.

She told me early this week that she had left her other half and was living with a former lass who worked for the company.

While getting lunch, she was in front of me in, we had a little chat and when carried on sorting out lunch.

She mentioned to the cashier that she had recently joined one of those my-space / facebook sites.

Of which I am a member.

She added everyone from the office, apart from me (as it comes up as an update on the others profile).

am I reading too much into events or is something going on?

Answer 1

it seems to me that she may like you but is not very good at being direct, maybe she is scared that you will reject her, particularly if she has just come out of a relationship she may be feeling abit vulnerable, just be friendly towards her at this stage, this will give her some reassurance that you like her without being too full on, don't ask her out on a date just yet either until you are sure that things are going to be alright again, the last thing you want is the cold shoulder again - but it may just be a defense mechanism because she doesn't want to get hurt again.

Answer 2

She sounds a little crazy.  Or she's playing mind games.  Or she's too immature to indicate to you that she likes you without freaking out.

Whatever it is, I recommend staying as far away from her as possible.

Answer 3

You're playing games with each other instead of being honest.

That puts you at a disadvantage - guy's are NOT good at reading women's signals.

Knock off the games - ask her out or sit her down and lay out some new ground rules.

Answer 4

BUG HER OFF & THROW HER INTO THE GARBAGE CAN, SHE DESERVES IT... She's only out there to play games with you.  

Answer 5

Shes already trouble. She seems to want you to chase after her. And because you are being casual about it, it's driving her mad. But also take into content, that she has tried the jealous approach, the ignore you approach, the let it slip that she has a webpage in front of you approach, and she's already moved on from one..to another... You just are not the type to play her funky little games, so I would just be friends, and ignore her wishy-washy ways. Spend more time with a gal that has more serious things to do with life.