Why female resist at first wedding night? is it good to share whatever both feel during s*x?

Question

in fact, i do feel that biological there may be differences in male and female body but male always take lead while female pretend to resists during s*x. Is it misconception or truth, if it is truth how make it easy?

Answer 1

FOREPLAY will make it easier

sometimes a woman is not ready for s*x physically where as a man is ready almost immediately. it depends on what you mean by resisting...does she not want to have s*x at all or does she just want you to slow things down? why not talk to her. (but not in a confrontational way - tell her how you feel with out making her feel bad/guilty)  

Answer 2

It is not the women who resist a man sometimes he maybe doing it wrong or she wants him to work at it harder.

Sometimes it is nice to resist because sometimes men do not want a dominating woman who goes after s*x like a man.

Think of the character, Samantha in the HBO show, s*x in the City. Enough said.

Answer 3

i've never resisted during s*x.

lol

Answer 4

I have never heard of a woman resisting on their wedding night. If their is any resistance it is only to get the guy to slow down a little bit because she is not wet enough or worked up enough not because she does not want to have s*x. Men some time have a tendency to want to rush things a little to fast and the woman is a little slower getting warmed up so to speak. This may be what you are talking about, I am not sure. Men slow down and take more time getting your lady ready and warmed up, she will let you know when the time is right, listen to her and you will be a better lover. Good Luck.