Why girls hate me i need help?

Question

I'm 12 years old and i live in a place called locks heath. since i was 10 all the girls started disliking me for some reason now I'm 12 its got worse I'm not the ugliest person but not the fittest ether. whenever i meet a new person they tend to not like me at all and i need help to stop this if enyone has eny sugsuggestion it would be grate

Answer 1

Get someone who's close to you to tell you your flaws that way you'll know what maybe some people don't like about you and you could try to make them better. I would suggest maybe your mom but remember not to get mad at them because they're only trying to help you. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Have you ever ask them "why" the dont like you?? If you have, take that into cnonsideration and work on those things. Some times people your age can be rude. Soon you will meet really cool friends that will accept you the way you are. keep your head up and dont let this get you down okay....smile!

Answer 3

well, i don't know about your hygiene but your details point me in that direction. do you shower daily? brush your teeth? shave? use deodorant? there is nothing more unattractive than B.O. or lack of hygiene. if you do all of these things, then maybe your cologne or whatever you put on smells bad. but make sure you're clean! this means clean hair, no body odor, brushed teeth, clean skin, no stains on your clothes, etc. i think of hygiene because it gets smellier as you get older and girls start to care more. but if you are completely sure that you're very hygienic then maybe it's your personality! you didn't post any details on that so maybe you are too shy or on the other hand, maybe too much of a smart aleck and you talk too much. maybe you seem to be cocky? or maybe you come off as a jerk. just go up to the mirror and pretend to be talking to a new girl. then think about how you came off.  

Answer 4

i personally wouldn't worry about it, eventually it will pass over. most young girls are at their rudest around this age. Once you get to high school and everyone finds other things to worry about, they will forget about why they didn't like you in the first place. Even in some cases the not so popular, becomes the popular. Girls would be mean to me too at your age and there wasn't a day I can think of where I didn't go home crying. Once I got to high school everyone who hated me tried to be/or became my friend. You'll be ok, just hang in there.  

Answer 5

it`s funny how you`re a girl and your name is Ryan ...

Ah, well .

You`re only 12.

There will be more people that will come in your life.

But, I don`t believe there`s an "ugly girl." ever.

Every girl is Pretty, I believe. & you don`t have to be stick skinny to be pretty. Have you think about why they dislike you ?

The way you dress ? The way you talk ? The way you act ?

Are you immature at times ?

Well, just be yourself, be whoever you are. don`t change because of others. If they don`t like you, it`s their lost.

Answer 6

I'm sorry you are going through this. Everyone goes through a time where it seems like noone likes you. However, if you do not like this you could make an effort to talk to more people or keeping a conversation going longer with someone so they get to know the real you. Hope this helps...!  

Answer 7

be your self be cool nice and be a quite type person to study people and see what they like and next step the approach as friends  

Answer 8

Maybe the girls consider u rude or something but i doubt it has anything with looks, i have i guy in my grade who is butt ugly and all the girls in my grade love him (he is one of the most popular boys in my grade and is a butt-head), or they like you so much they hate it.

Answer 9

honestly i would just try 2 hang out with my family. And show the other girls u dont care if they like u or not. Show that u can hav fun by yourself. and every time someone new comes 2 town. immediatly make friends with them before someone tells them lies about you.