Why guys are like that?

Question

WHY some guys only like s***s & not normal girls?

LETS say a guy is walking or he is in a club. & they LOOK at a girl with a short skirt or with a nice smile on her face, Or a girl that is dancing like a s**t HE will like her, why guys dont look further than a skirt than someone dancing all night. WHY don't they think ''in a different way''?

Answer 1

Because most men are secretly insecure.  Thusly, they are afraid of being in meaningful, committed relationships.  So they only look for one-night stands or hump & dump girls, that way, they don't have to fear being hurt.   The good men aren't just looking for s*x, they're looking for love.

Answer 2

ha ha

they think in a different way

but da problem is women wont realize it

men like out going girls just to flirt

but not for love

ooooooook  

girl

Answer 3

they don't like the s**t themselves, they like what their gonna get!

Answer 4

Because we are VISUAL creatures. We are instantly attracted to things that appeal to us. It's been that way since the human race has been around. It's not that difficult to understand.

Why do women think men should think and look at things in the same ways they do.

Answer 5

I'll tell you why:

Its because you're looking at the rich looking guy who looks like he works out a lot and you know he parked that ferrari outside.

This is all while the nice guys by the bar is sitting there drinking because he can't understand why no girls like him when he's good and sensitive and nice and not a sleeze bag.

How about you try focussing on the right guys, not the wrong guys.

Answer 6

because they think so !

Answer 7

why would you be interested in guys who GO for these types but hey NOT all girls in short skirts are easy and S****y........it seems you sound a bit jealous anyway so OR try for once to wear a short skirt OR go to other places....you can meet a nice guy in some library you know

Answer 8

perhaps you should stop negatively labelling people...

women would are sexually more free aren't "bad" or abnormal...

just cos you aren't into s*x doesn't make you better than them...

us guys are after s*x, and if there are two women, one willing and the other not, we'll take the willing one every time... saves problems... :D

Answer 9

If a guy is in a club, he's probably going to check out all the hot girls in sight.

But if he's walking, like you say, he's going to find appeal in the sexier girl. This applies to both guys who are in or out of a relationship already.

They can think in a different way if they haven't been altered by television or talk of other guys....

But chances are, everyone interesting has watched tv at one point or another. It's "learned behavior"....from tv.

But not all guys are like that :)

Answer 10

Clubs aren't usually the right place to meet guys looking for more than skin deep attraction, in my opinion.

Try going somewhere different, like a quiet little pub or somewhere more intellectual.  

Answer 11

face it, we guys are visual. you can't fight it, that's our nature.

but if you have a problem with getting ignored at a club or on the street, maybe you need a makeover. in the end, guys tend to stick with those who are good to talk to. brush up on your conversation skills

good luck & best wishes

Answer 12

may be u should properly look around ,not all guys r like tht and even if they r like that ,, then its normal every one wants one-night -stands and alll so if girl is not like tht then for this generation it seems not so attractive.

but u kno what ,,if u go at place like club, how can u expect someone to be very decent and all..

if u want decent person ,,try some other time or other place..

and believe me not all guys r same,,, watever may be life ,but guys mostly. prefer virgin wife.... .

and a better answer to ur question would be tht ,, u tell me now every girl wants boyfriend isnt it ,, ,u tell me "why girls arent attracted to nice guys". jst because they are being nicer ,is it there fault, if girls cant compromise on this ,, uve got no right to ask why "boys dnt like normal girls""

and then girls say they want gentlemen who would treat them like princess... my goodness.

Answer 13

basically, the brain of a woman and man is structured very differently!

woman relate s*x with love, while man dont. that's why men can hav an affair and feel completely fine about it.

people like pretty people, and they'll usually pick gorgeous individuals over ugly ppl, that's usually the case wen they dont know their personalities yet..

i guess all i hav2 say is.. that's life, pathetic isn't it.? but there are still nice guys out there dont worry (=  

Answer 14

please do not ask for "IMPOSSIBLES"...lol

Answer 15

because it all comes down to S****y dirty gutter s*x and it's the thought men have every 3 seconds according to psychologist around the world...  the other 2 seconds of thought are trying to remember what we were thinking about.

Answer 16

Who knows?

I suppose just because men are attracted to slu*s and would rather a naughty girl to a nice girl.. i dont know.. men are wierd and women will never completely understand them. i suppose most men look for only one thing and are not interested in spending the rest of their life with that girl acting like a who*re anyway but figure she will be good in bed!! Men are gross. dont worry about it. id much prefer a girl who doesnt act like a total hussy

Answer 17

This is only my thought but it is a club. The guys are going there to look for fun and s*x. They are not really looking for the nice girl. The real guys will notice your pretty smile and buy you a drink.