My mother in law- ugh! I'm sure you know what I'm talking about!
She used to visit us every other weekend (bi-weekly) and give us no notice (I'm in the car, I'm on my way there- type thing). I was a big push over until I saw the light. She was trying to be my daughter's parent and buy her whatever she wanted. I wasn't ok with that. I wrote her a blunt email stating that "I cannot accept anything that is not age appropriate to my daughter". I used a lot of "my daughter" statements to give her that push in the other direction. She was so offended and whatnot. She had to ask my husband to explain my feelings and he gave it to her. He listed the reasons why I can't stand her (she thought I liked her prior to the email!):
-She talks about my husband's ex gf like she's his wife
-Her children come over and she expects us to watch them while she's holding the baby. They left mud all over in my bathroom and spit gum on the wall!
-She was sharing a drink with her two daughters AND MY BABY!
and the list goes on. My husband stood up for me because he was sick and tired of me fighting with him over it (it was a month long battle this past June and July!)
So on July 10th I wrote her that email. Since then, she called hubby, he called her. She didn't invite us anywhere (she always does) and she didn't ask to come over or say she's on her way over.
I've been home free from her for over a month now. Can I expect things to stay this way or is it a coincidence? Could she be staying away from me to avoid me chewing her out again? Or is she just "busy"?
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