Why hasn't he called me?

Question

for those of you who dont know, i asked a question earlier this week about whether this guy liked me. (here's the link: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnSS8ge34bGmQEntn84x36Hsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080828151121AAdPUFh) the majority of the people who answered said they think that he does like me, but he hasn't called and i havent talked since thursday (2 days). does that mean that he's not interested after all? i could really use some great advice, thanx!!

Answer 1

Im not sure if this is just me but most of us guys dont really like to talk on the phone.I know i dont. But if you know anything about him, such as he likes to talk on the phone then there might be some trouble but if he dosent then dont worry just send him a text and slowly leading into talking on the phone or say after about 20 texts that your out and maybe say "hey could we talk on the phone,because i really dont want to rack up my bill." hope this helps

Answer 2

First of all give this guy a break--look at yourself really closely--if you go to lunch with a guy and he hasn't called you for a few days and you are worried about that it means you don't have a life that is keeping you busy and excited enough for you not to be WAITING for anyone to call you--get a life and have fun fun fun--include school and work and then if the right guy comes along he won't have to call you right away because you won't be counting the days.

Answer 3

you need to stop making it such a drama thing.  Just come out and talk to the person.  The more you stress or read into something the worse you make it.  No one can answer this question but you and the boy.  Good luck and live not not stress over life.

Answer 4

If your worried that he hasn't called you yet call him, simple. He could have not called you yet because he's been busy, or misplaced your number or even his own phone. Call him and find out, if after a few calls over a space of a few days and you still haven't gotten in touch then I'd say he's over you.

Answer 5

I think you should call him if your really so worried about. sometimes guys don't think about things the same way so he might not be thing he should call you.

Answer 6

your other question is deleted...so we cant tell

Answer 7

There a is 3 day grace period, has he called you before.

Give him a chance.

Answer 8

sorry hun, i caan`t see your other question, its deleteed,

but don`t worry, maybee hee is just too busy or shy

i know a lot of guys that are shy and wow sweetie

2 daays is not thaat baad, youu can`t expect him too

call youu everydaay. but don't worry sooner or later hee

will caall and youu caan ask him why hee neveer called,

probably has a reason.

Answer 9

1.) I don't know what happened, don't know the story. 2.) Maybe he isn't interested that can be one reason he hasn't called or 3.) could be shy about calling a girl, boys like girls can feel pressured sometimes and nervous about calling a girl, what do you talk about, (no one wants to stay on the phone and listen to each other breath) or 4.) Maybe he actually is busy and has not gotten a chance to call. 5.) could be he is looking for a good reason to call you and ask you out, but not sure what he can do with you to have fun. 6.) To late to make a long story short,but you can call him yourself if you have his number, but first think of a time and day you might be able to meet up and  hang out. So that way if you guys are on your first time speaking by phone, you can say your hello's ,how are ya doing, etc etc and then ask if he is free, (what ever day you pick) then ask him if he wants to do something, if he can't think right away suggest something, that both of you might enjoy doing, don't do movies because you can't really get to know each other because your not talking, your actually watching a movie. Then after you work all that out, make sure you sound excited but not overly physco excited and then end the convo sweetly and yet friendly. Set time and date and all of that. Good Luck. And if by anychance he doesn't answer, just leave a little message and ask him to get back to you. Leave your phone number and leave a short message.

Answer 10

sorry but i think so.. just give him some time & lets see till when he'll call u if he does'nt call you all this week maybe he does'nt want to talk to u

Answer 11

havet you ever heard of the 3 day rule

Answer 12

give him time or call him

Answer 13

he's gonna call. mayb he doesnt wanna look desperate to you

Answer 14

mayb mayb not. if hes a slick guy he cud be following the 3day/7day rule wutever. if u see him in real life, and he supplicates to you then he likes you. tries to physically touch you deffinitely, is shy around you is also true. wait like a week, see if he texts you/calls you and if he doesnt in

say 10 days he probly forgot and doesnt like you like tht. good luck :)

Answer 15

Give it time, hun.

Please answer my question ---> http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 16

Guys get preoccupied with other things...he could just be busy...most guys dont enjoy talking on the phone as much as girls