Why hasn't he called or contacted me?

Question

Okay so he came over the night...we talked for about 2 or 3 hours about old times etc.. we hadnt got a chance to touch base since he been in town( we use to go out when we were younger it doesnt count cuz we were younger but still) we laughed and reminisced and i told him that i wish i would have lost my virginity to him because we missed out on each other for years but i always wanted to he said wow and he seemed happy lol so anyway we ended up having s*x and we spoke after he left....then i see him on aol and he doesnt speak to me if he does its brief why is that?

Answer 1

he doesn't know what to say to you because you guys had s*x, and he doesn't want a relationship and is afraid you're going to want one and he can't face you now because he knows you're going to be hurt.

by saying you wished you lost your virginity to him was an invitation to have s*x, and guys usually don't turn down the opportunity for s*x that's being handed to them, they don't think about the aftermath it's going to create

Answer 2

why do u think that is? and y even look for the answer here? my guess is that you'll find in on aol. lol.

Answer 3

Sorry to say, he's just not that into you.  Men do not refuse s*x, especially when the offer is as blatant as yours.

Some men are very judgemental about women who are quick to sleep with them.  I think perhaps he's jumped to some conclusions about the type of girl you are.

Answer 4

Honest opinion here. Being a guy, I can tell you that most guys are only interested in one thing. How well do you know him? maybe he's just busy. In my opinion you should just call and flat out ask him. Guys don't like all the drama, just be blunt and throw it out right on table. If he still doesn't answer you, tell him what he'll never have again and hang up. Then go out and find something better because he's obviously not worth it.

Good luck.

Answer 5

He got what he wanted

Answer 6

bc you're a w***e

Answer 7

Agreed with Mrs. Reznor

Answer 8

I'm sorry to say this, but he probably used you to get some.

Answer 9

You threw yourself at him, he isn't interested in you. I think he's made it pretty clear.

Answer 10

cuz hes a cheatin'

Answer 11

You seem to have hit it off in person. Maybe he's not the type of guy to talk on the computer. Some people just don't like typing and all and that probably answers why he briefly talks on AOL. Why he doesn't call, i'm not sure. Maybe you should call him and listen to how he speaks. If it sounds like he's trying to avoid you talk to him about it. If he talks the same as he did the night he came over then yeah things are cool and he probably doesn't have the habit of calling. Don't jump to conclusions about him using you for s*x. He could have or haven't been. Either way, just talk to him about it.

Answer 12

we'll i guess he got what he wanted!!! maybe he doesn't want to be bothered with u anymore!!! sorry girlie!!! men are always like that..selfish

Answer 13

maybe the s*x was bad? :(

Answer 14

It seems that you gave yourself to him too easily, and now he's bored with you.

Anyways, the bible says that s*x is only for married couples.

Answer 15

just wanted some s*x...thats all....just give him some time....he might feel weird after having s*x with you.....