Why have i changed? I can't see it but my partner can.

Question

I've been living with my partner for five months now and he says i've changed. I can't see it..honestly i've tried and i still feel the same as i used to.

I was just wondering are there ways that i could see my flaws and see where and how i've changed?

Thanks for any help. :)

Answer 1

sometimes people think others have changed, when in actuality they didnt really know the person. People begin to feel more relaxed after getting to know someone. They start to show their true selves. They in turn do things they wouldnt with someone they just met, after they get to know someone.

I think its fair to ask what has changed, especially if you dont know.

Sometimes, when we look at a person and their changes, we realize habits are forming, where they had not been noticed before. do you have any new habits, or things that you do differently?

Perhaps, a walk, a step, use of substance, smoking, changes in verbal communication, changes in behavior, emotions, feelings, etc.

Answer 2

People change, as we grow. In life and relationships.

Your probably more naggy?

Women tend to change for the worst in men's eyes.

Answer 3

just look at the way u treat him, and if u have changed you'll know!